Attract Your Soulmate – Our Top 10 Ways

There are many ways to attract your soulmate.

Soulmates enter our lives through a chance encounter, from just being in the right place at the right time. Others yearn and search for theirs for years, but have yet to meet them.

Each couple is different, so they’ll meet their soulmate at the right time and usually through some act of divine providence. You don’t have to worry about missing the opportunity to meet yours. The universe will ensure the two of you will meet.

If you want to attract a soulmate or twin flame there are some things in your life you can do to encourage that chance encounter to happen. If the universe is waiting for you to be ready, then why not show them you are?


1. Get out of the wrong relationship

Staying stuck in the wrong relationship will not help you attract your soulmate, because you’re spending so much time, energy and effort on the wrong path. Stop being so invested a relationship that’s not working. Keep in mind, the universe usually tires of waiting for people to exit their relationships, so they throw a soulmate into the mix.

Now this can either be a wake-up call for them to get out, or this can create a whole new set of problems. It really is best to untangle yourself before your soulmate enters, rather than after they show up.

2. Stop trying to make the wrong person your soulmate

You can’t attract a real soulmate when you’re so busy trying to turn your current romantic interest into one. Either they are or they aren’t.

 You can’t force someone to be your soulmate just by hoping and wishing it. Sometimes a dysfunctional relationship is mistaken for a soulmate relationship. Don’t make that mistake. That can keep you stuck and prevent your true desire, which is to attract your soulmate.

3. Be open to new things

To attract a soulmate you should be open to new ideas, places, people and activities. You make it harder for your soulmate to enter your life when you’re not out really interacting with people and experiencing life. Binging Netflix shows is fun, but it isn’t going to help you meet someone, is it? 

Getting out and putting yourself out there is a great way to attract your soulmate. Engage in activities you enjoy. If you like painting, take a painting class. Soulmates often have similar interests and hobbies. So do the things you like to do and get out and about.

4. Be a positive person

Focus on the positive to attract your soulmate. Positive people attract positive things. If you’re a Negative Nellie, do you really think someone wants to be with you?

Thoughts and attitudes are powerful things. When you constantly focus on what you don’t have, you just attract more of the same. If you say to yourself, “I will never attract my true love”, that’s what the Universe hears.

You can manifest good things for yourself and just as easily manifest what you don’t want. By your own words and thoughts, you make it so. When you focus on positive things, you will bring positive things into your life. See yourself happy and fulfilled, in a loving relationship and know it will be so.

5. Make time for yourself

Attract Your Soulmate - Top 10 Ways
Attract Your Soulmate – Top 10 Ways

You may not believe that making time for yourself is one of the ways to attract your soulmate, but it is. It’s not really about being alone, but taking the time to honor yourself, both externally and internally.

This includes taking care of yourself through a good diet and exercise, but also focusing on you inner self as well. To engage in a spiritually connected relationship you should get on a spiritual path, don’t you think?

You can also try things like meditation, which has been proven for ages to help you stay centered, focused and calm. Taking classes and courses to improve yourself, your image as well as your own self esteem can do wonders.

6. Be true to who you are

One the top rules of attracting your soulmate is to be yourself. Sometimes when you meet someone you’re interested in, your desire to merge with them can be so great, you lose track of who you are. You can morph into something other than your true, authentic self, if you desire to impress someone to keep them in your life.

This may cause you to attract a false soulmate because you’re not being true to yourself. A true soulmate relationship is one forged of a soul level connection, so don’t be afraid to be who you are. This is who your soulmate will be attracted to.

7. Be with people you love

You can attract your soulmate by surrounding yourself with people who love you. When you’re feeling loved, you project joy. If you’re feeling loved, you love back. When you’re living in a place of love, rather than a place of fear, you create the space to attract your soulmate.

In order for something to enter your life, something has to exit. Take stock of what’s not working for you and impeding your growth or success. Get rid of any negative people that are holding you back. .

Your energy patterns are higher when you share love, than when you feel disempowered and depressed. Raising your energy, raises your vibration, which will help you attract your soulmate.

8. Closure from past relationships

Attract Your Soulmate - Top 10 Ways
Attract Your Soulmate – Top 10 Ways

To attract your soulmate, you should have closure from your past relationships. While you can meet your soulmate when you’re in a relationship with someone else, or healing from a broken relationship, it brings with it an extra set of challenges no one needs.

When you still hold onto junk from your past relationships, whether it be fear, abandonment issues, insecurity or whatever, you’re coming to your new relationship with tons of destructive issues. It is not up to your partner to heal all of that for you. It is not fair to them to be punished for things someone else did.

Do some healing work to release any past relationship traumas. Learn how to set and enforce boundaries, and work on your emotional triggers and your responses to them.

9. Be centered and grounded

Being centered and grounded can help you attract a spiritual partner. One of the best ways to feel grounded is to surround yourself with nature. Taking walks in the park, on the beach or in the woods are a great way to not only ground yourself but connect to the Divine.

When we breathe in fresh air we are able to center ourselves. When we connect to our natural environment either through walking, hiking or gardening, or spending time at the beach a lake we connect to the earth.

The sights, sounds and scents of nature can fill us with a sense of peace. Connecting with the universe and centering yourself on your spiritual path can often awaken your connection to your soulmate.

10. Follow your passion and do what you love

Attracting your soulmate can be facilitated by doing something you love. What do you love? What is your passion? If you love visiting museums, go to one. Do you love traveling? Plan a vacation to your favorite destination! Have you always wanted to to go on a cruise but have never booked one? Grab a friend and head out to sea. If you don’t have a friend, go by yourself!

If you love antique car shows but your horrendous work schedule circumvents any plans you’ve made, give yourself a break and go! Whatever your passion is, embrace it. When you do what you love, and you love what you are doing, your energy is in a positive, brighter place. This shift gives you greater opportunity to attract your soulmate. Besides, you just might meet while you’re vacationing, hiking, biking, skiing or visiting that museum.

These are just a few of the ways you can work toward attracting your soulmate. There are no mediations, spells or mumbo jumbo to draw them to you. Please do not waste your money on such things. Living your most authentic life, is the way.





Originally posted on 2019-09-26 @ 3:15 am

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