Are you in a soulmate love triangle?
If you are, it may have started out as an affair. Normally you would never sign up for anything like this. If a person was not available, they were off limits to you.
However, your soulmate made you rethink your standards. It’s hard, because a lot of soulmates meet when one or both of them is unavailable. So, affairs start, but as the feelings grow, so do the expectations.
It’s very frustrating waiting for a soulmate to become single. It’s very rare for all parties to want a soulmate love triangle to continue long-term. The goal, for most people, is for the love triangle to end. They want the relationship to include just the two of them.
But that doesn’t always happen quickly, does it? What happens, more often than not, is that it goes on for an unbearably long time.
SOULMATE LOVE TRIANGLES
During this time, one member of the soulmate love triangle has no clue what’s happening. They have no idea a soulmate love triangle is going on under their nose. They think everything is fine. The other two members of the triangle have the excitement of sneaking around and the moments they get to spend together. It’s during this time that emotions are running high and brain power is running low.
After getting away with it for so long, they’ve forgotten how easily they can get caught. They also aren’t as careful as they were in the beginning. So, it stands to reason they would get caught.
Neither of them want to think of the person left in the dark. If they think about things from their perspective, they might actually feel guilt and remorse. It’s better for them not to think about how much they could be hurting someone else. But now they’re going to have to deal with the other’s feelings of betrayal in one way or another.
In some cases, the one doing the actual cheating never intends to lose their primary relationship. They just want a little something on the side. So they take a chance and now have no say in the matter. They want to keep both. But getting caught creates a situation where they lose one. This can sometimes lead to the realization they truly love the one they’re cheating on and the side relationship just isn’t worth it. Now everyone is unhappy and no one wins the prize.
TIME TO GET OUT
People who find themselves in soulmate love triangles need to get out as soon as possible. A decision has to be made very soon which party is going to leave. Or you run the risk of ruining all the relationships. No one really sets out to be in a love triangle. But so many, sadly, find themselves there.
When you’re in a soulmate love triangle, you may have to give your soulmate an ultimatum. They could be using the love triangle as a way to manipulate and control your relationship. By keeping the love triangle in play they don’t have to give themselves fully to the connection. And they must surrender their attempts to control everything and everyone in the relationship.
Sometimes it’s best to step away from the triangle itself and create distance in order for things to fall into place. Because, quite frankly your soulmate needs a wake-up call.