Soulmate separation warning signs will appear when one of the soulmates is getting ready to bolt.
Many people equate soulmates as fairy tale relationships. They believe when two soulmates come together, nothing can tear them apart. However, due to the growth and life lessons that are a significant part of soulmate relationships, a separation phase is actually quite commonplace.
A soulmate separation will usually have some red flags to serve as warnings ahead of time. Are you missing the warning signs that a soulmate separation may be in the future for your relationship? Here’s a list of the most popular signs so you can prepare yourself, as best you can, for separation between you and your soulmate.
SOULMATE SEPARATION WARNING SIGNS
1. Meeting at the wrong time.
Many soulmates meet when one, or both, are in relationships with someone else. In order to be together, the couple must often separate for a while. They may need to relocate, get a divorce or end that relationship.
Sometimes they can do this while their soulmate remains in their life. However, it’s common for soulmates to separate for a while, and stay in their original relationship, in an attempt to forget their soulmate. This rarely works. So they do what they must to have their soulmate back in their life.
In other cases, soulmates may not be living in close proximity to one another, and so they may separate until one can change residence.
2. A soulmate pulls back.
A soulmate may pull back emotionally and/or physically. Sometimes it’s very drastic and easy to spot. Other times it can be gradual and occurs over a period of time.
Either way, it will come to the attention of the other partner. But if they mention it, they’ll give you excuses or say you’re imagining things. In many cases this leads up to soulmate separation. This is taking baby steps towards being a soulmate runner.
In certain cases pulling back can caused heated arguments because it becomes hurtful and insulting. Pulling away affection causes the other partner to feel rejected, and of course can lead to fights that cause soulmate separation.
3. The past is causing problems in your current relationship.
If your soulmate hasn’t healed past hurts, your relationship will suffer. Instead of fixing it themselves, they will want you to fix them, which you can’t. At other times they will want you to enable them, which you shouldn’t.
It’s unfortunate your soulmate had bad childhood, or past relationship, experiences. However, it’s not your fault and you shouldn’t be punished for things you didn’t say or do.
Your soulmate needs to heal their past, to allow your relationship to move forward. It’s also necessary for their own personal growth these changes are made. If they resist, the baggage of their past will likely lead to issues in your relationship that result in separation.
4. Other people’s interference.
You’re both probably thrilled you found one another and have an amazing connection. But this doesn’t mean everyone else will be happy for you. A jealous ex, a domineering or controlling parent, child or even friend can cause tons of problems.
These relationships were off balance before your soulmate came into the picture. When you came together, it shone a light on the truth of those relationships. Your soulmate may not want to see it or to deal with it properly.
They may want you to understand, while they disrespect you and the relationship. If they don’t establish healthy boundaries, and enforce them, it will eventually lead to soulmate separation.
5. Refusal to learn life lessons as they arise.
If a soulmate refuses to evolve, they will repeat bad life patterns and choices. The lessons for spiritual growth make themselves quite clear. It’s not difficult to spot what we need to individually work on and heal.
But some people choose to disregard the lessons or fight them. This will of course cause conflict in the relationship. And since the lessons will repeat themselves, the conflict also will repeat itself. The damage this causes the relationship often leads to a separation phase.
6. You’re not getting along as well as you used to.
Suddenly, any and every minor thing leads to a major argument. There may be insults thrown around and harsh words exchanged. The communication no longer seems open, but mostly hostile and argumentative.
Silly misunderstandings are inflated and apologies seem to do nothing. They don’t want to understand at this point. They’re looking for reasons to blame the departure they’re planning on you.
7. Unhealthy relationship dynamics
A refusal to learn the lessons that come with your soulmate relationship creates unhealthy dynamics in your relationship. The longer this continue, the closer you both get to soulmate separation. It’s inevitable, that at some point, things will get so bad a break-up will occur.
In almost all cases, if your soulmate is hell bent on separating from you, there’s little or nothing you can do to stop them. You can take comfort in the fact that most soulmate separations are only temporary.
Of course a separation from a soulmate is painful, but it’s crucial that you never chase a runner. You should also practice some positive self care to help you get through this difficult time.