Soulmate rejection is a pretty common occurrence, contrary to popular belief. There are a few reasons why soulmate rejection occurs. And we will get into those, along with how to deal with them individually.
EMOTIONS CAUSE SOULMATE REJECTION
One of the main reasons soulmate rejection occurs is because of the overwhelming flood of emotions that come with soul connections. No matter how prepared you think you are for a soulmate, you never really are. These emotions defy all logical thought. And at some point (almost always) one, if not both, soulmates battle between their logic and their feelings.
Yes, they feel like they’ve known their soulmate forever. But they know that isn’t true. So how can it be real, if it isn’t true? The feeling is real but the battle between logic and emotion begins. You can flip back and forth. But at some point you have to pick a team. You know you feel an intense stirring of emotions right away with this person. But you just met them. Are you going crazy? It should take a while to begin to fall in love with someone, shouldn’t it?
You can’t believe you have such strong ties to another person. And much less someone who you haven’t known for a long time. It’s easy to reject and deny the feelings because it simply doesn’t make logical sense. Emotions are not known for being logical all the time, especially with soulmates. So the initial soulmate rejection is really a rejection of emotions.
If you’re going through this yourself, as in rejecting your own feelings, you have to stop trying to have it make sense. It won’t make sense. It’s what it is. You know what you feel. How can’t you? And you know it’s different and unique. So that should be all that you need.
WHEN YOUR SOULMATE PUSHES YOU AWAY
As for your partner, they may reject you. They may push you away because they’re rejecting the connection and any feelings for you. That doesn’t mean they don’t have them. No matter what they say. The worst thing you could do at this point is try to convince them. It’s not your job and will usually make things worse. As hard as it is, you have to let them get through this on their own. They can’t break the connection any easier than you can. So let go of your fear. They can run from their soulmate but they can’t hide. And at some point they will have to deal with it. Give them that time.
Another reason soulmate rejection occurs is because either of you aren’t single. Often soulmates enter each others lives to show them they have to end relationships that are no longer working for them. So the soulmate shows up to serve as a catalyst for change. But instead of ending that bad relationship, they end the soulmate relationship. This can be devastating to the other soulmate.
So the smart thing to do is let them be for now. Let them live with their choice and take a good hard look at what they’re missing. This helps them more clearly see the problems in their bad relationship. Once your eyes have been opened to what could be with a soulmate, you can’t go back to normal. They can try but it’s an exercise in futility. You both know better now, and you can’t fool yourselves for much longer. Let them end what should have ended a long time ago without you. Let them return to you without the baggage and all the nonsense that goes with it. If they need help, they will let you know. But if they don’t, LEAVE THEM ALONE.
NOT WANTING TO DEAL WITH PERSONAL GROWTH
Another reason for soulmate rejection is when one, or both, of you refuses to learn the lessons. They attempt to destroy and reject what’s good and pure about the connection. They won’t commit. And they sabotage the relationship. Basically they do everything in their power to prove that they don’t feel the same way you do. Or that you feel more than they do.
They don’t. It’s a lie. But they want you to believe it. If this is happening to you, it’s time to call their bluff. If you have to give them space to save your sanity and the relationship, then do it. This is the time to suppress your desire to show them how you feel. Force them to show you they feel the same way you do by hiding your emotions through words and actions.
These are a few common reasons why soulmate relationships experience rejection. It’s not the end of the world if you face this rejection. And it’s certainly not always the end of your relationship either.