Soulmate Fears

Soulmate fears are one of the top challenges soulmates face. When both the emotional and logical sides of soul mates are often at odds with one another, fears will rise to the surface. If those fears get out of control, the relationship often goes out of control. When our emotions get the better of us, and the mind comes into play, the mind can often create fears that spin things off their axis. The stronger the emotion, the bigger the fear. The more those fears grow, the worse they can affect a soulmate relationship.


Top 5 Soulmate Fears

  1. One of the top soulmate fears is questioning that what you feel can’t be real. This can also manifest the fear that feelings a soulmate feels cannot be real. Logic cannot explain the connection and emotions soulmates feel for one another. So because logic cannot explain it, soulmates often think they are going crazy, and need to “snap out of it.” They may pull away, or even disappear for a while. They may deny their feelings for their soulmate and the connection. Then the chaos really begins.

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  3. If a soulmate fears their feelings cannot be real, the next fear to rear its ugly head is the feelings cannot last. They also fear that these feelings can/may change easily or quickly. This fear breeds insecurity, which always does a number on the person themselves and the relationship. Both tend to change for the worse. Constant worrying that the happiness they feel will not last, brings them eventually to the third soulmate fear.

  5. Now that a soulmate fears the feelings may not be real and the relationship may not last, they fear they can/will be hurt. Are they willing to face that fear? No, it scares them big time. So again the fear grows. Usually these fears actually end up manifesting the greatest fear, the end of the relationship. Soulmates wind up sabotaging the relationship without really wanting to. They may try to test one another in order to prove how strong the love or connection is. They think this will ease their mind, but it is quite the opposite. Once the test is done the damage is done too, which only breeds more insecurity. These tests never remove insecurities, so they are often repeated, which makes for a dysfunctional relationship with no room for growth.

  7. Soulmate fears also lead to a soulmate pulling a runner. Since emotions can’t handle the fears manifested in the mind and their mind, it all becomes too much for them. They simply run away and hide and even walk out the door overnight! They don’t answer calls, delete you off social media, and go totally MIA. You may have experienced a soulmate running away, and it is excruciating. When you think of reasons why they left, your emotions are a wreck, which creates the next soulmate fear.

  9. The fear that every fight or every problem will lead to a permanent breakup. Even “regular” couples fight, but that doesn’t mean they break up for good. In soulmate relationships, the greatest fear is that any conflict, break-up or fight will lead to the relationship being over for good. This is a very destructive fear. Soulmate relationships are supposed to have challenges so they can change us for the better. If we do not challenge ourselves or our partners to be better, it often causes our problems to continue or get worse. When we enable our relationship to stay dysfunctional, it can never get better. We avoid the very lessons they are meant to teach us, which misses the point entirely.

Soulmates need to have more faith, and less fear, to get their relationships moving in the right direction.


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  4. When I let go of the fear and focused on the faith in our connection it gave me the strength to stand up for myself and be brave and do what I was afraid to do in the past. (like make him mad, break off with him, etc)

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