Many times your soulmate is not ready for your soulmate relationship. When they are unable to accept and acknowledge your connection it can leave you in an emotional mess. Many people contact us to inquire what can be done to facilitate the journey down the path of soulmate bliss. Unfortunately, you can’t do anything.
You cannot make your soulmate ready, and you can’t help them become ready. The only thing you can do is allow them the time or space they need to become ready. Long winded discussions will, in almost all cases, do absolutely nothing to make your soulmate become ready for the relationship. So stop trying to convince them and stop pleading your case. If they want space, then give it to them. You may feel that is the hardest thing to do, but in reality it is not.
The hardest thing on your soulmate relationship is trying to force it when someone is resisting you. It causes more damage, ruins self-esteem, and creates bad habits that are very hard to break further down the road. Giving them time, although difficult on your end, is the smartest thing to do. Show them the confidence you claim to have in your connection with your actions instead of your words. If you want them to believe you should be together, than show them your faith, instead of chasing after them because of your fears.
There are endless reasons your soulmate may not be ready for the relationship. They may need to get out of another relationship before they are free to be with you. They may need to heal from a past relationship that caused them a lot of drama, trauma and chaos. They could be paralyzed by fear, spooked by the connection and intensity of feelings never experienced before meeting you.
Your soulmate may have to focus on family issues or a serious illness of someone close to them. Your soulmate may be going through a bitter divorce or child custody battle. Your soulmate could be trying to control the relationship by saying they are not ready for you. Soulmates tend to shake things up, and let’s face it, it can be scary and make you question your own sanity.
It really does not matter why. Any reason they present is not a good enough reason, so ultimately it won’t make a difference. It can’t change how they feel, regardless of what you or they believe. Unless you specifically did something, and it would have to be pretty huge, their reason won’t make them forget you. So stop worrying about it. Just like you can’t let go of them and stop thinking of them they won’t be able to do it either. Instead of obsessing about reasons they are not ready or wondering when they will be ready, focus on something else.
You already got the red flag they are more than likely going to challenge you in this relationship. That is going to take your inner strength, not your weakness, to surmount those challenges. Stay strong, and stay focused on the right things so that you will be ready when they are.