Why Does Your Soulmate Hurt You?

Why does your soulmate hurt you? Isn’t a soulmate relationship supposed to be a relationship with a higher standard? Why would a soulmate hurt your feelings, especially for no good reason? First of all, soulmates have very deep feelings for one another by way of their deep soul connection. Unfortunately, this does not mean they won’t hurt you. Usually they will hurt you much more than a regular, or mundane, relationship.

DEEP FEELINGS MAKE YOUR SOULMATE HURT YOU

Soulmate relationships are very tricky and often hard to navigate. When feelings run high, tensions often run high as well. Due to the hurdles soulmates often have to jump over, hurt feelings are often a part of the package. If the lessons are avoided on either side, you can pretty much guarantee there will be a lot of hurt feelings as well.

Just because this person is your soulmate, doesn’t mean you give them carte blanche to repeatedly hurt you feelings. You are supposed to raise your standard with a soulmate, not lower it. If you lower your standards you’re not learning your lessons either.

Why Does Your Soulmate Hurt You?

Why Does Your Soulmate Hurt You?

The universe won’t support a relationship where one soulmate constantly hurts another. And the other one tolerates it. This is not what the union is for. So don’t expect a miracle from them. Your soulmate has to stop hurting you. But you have to stop waiting for them to hurt you and do something about it.

You may not like what you have to do, but too bad. You want this relationship to work out? Then do the work. Or enable it to be ruined. It’s up to you. You know what to do, in most cases, you’re just afraid to do it. Fear and insecurities are not exactly the best advisors are they? Do what you know is right and stop doing what is safe.

STOP MAKING EXCUSES

You can’t keep using the soulmate excuse. Stop blaming your connection for the reason you allow your soulmate to hurt you over and over again. Yes, the connection is there. The universe created it, but don’t blame them. They’re not forcing you to remain in a connection that hurts you. Own up to your responsibility of the misuse of your connection.

In so many, many cases a soulmate will hurt you because they’re trying to work out the connection. And what they must face because of you. While they work through that, you may get hurt in the process. If your soulmate is in denial about having this bond with you, how they react is going to hurt your feelings. That isn’t about you per say. But it’s about them accepting what’s happening.

It doesn’t excuse them. Just try not to take it too personally. Which we realize is easier said than done. If it’s hurting you too much, distance yourself from them until they work through it on their own. You’re not responsible for being their teacher all the time. They learned to talk, write, drive and do math. They can learn their own lessons if you need to remove yourself from the situation for a while.

When a soulmate is working through their own issues and feelings they may not understand or be aware of how their words, decisions or behaviors hurt you. If you don’t make your hurt feelings aware to them, and not just with words but actions, then they won’t think it’s really a big deal. Never be so compassionate to someone else, even a soulmate, that you constantly sacrifice your own feelings, and allow yourself to be hurt over and over again.

6 Comments

  1. This resonated with me so much. ty

  2. I’m currently struggling with this issue. I am in complete love and obsession over this woman and we both cannot deny the natural connection we have with one another. I’ve never completely given my whole being to someone like I have done for her. I couldn’t ever say anything to her to hurt her feelings or disrespect her in anyway. But unfortunately she says mean and hurtful things to me. When she does this I get so hurt because she is my world and I’ve expressed this to her over and over but anytime she gets mad she just says things…knowing it hurts me. When I express this to her she will say things like “go get a better gf then” or “why are you even with me?” She might apologize but it never stops. I just want the love and respect that I put out for her in return. Why can’t she just not talk to me in that way? That’s all I’ve ever really asked of her

    • O boy I’m going through the same thing except my male is on the other side of the world. I just stopped talking to him so he can work things out in his head. I feel that when we speak again he won’t hurt me so much. It’s unbearable i am in so much pain he just flooded me with every ounce of his pain. And he doesn’t even sympathise with me. And we are both married
      Give it some space bro I think that will help

  3. could a soulmate domestic abuse you?

    • Why do soulmates you’ve been married to for 12 years and have family obligations..kids,house,Bill’s
      Once letting you know theyve been having a double life with affairs and another “real family” theyve been lying to you daily throughout marriage..doesnt just end the relationship in peace each continuing to fulfill their familys obligations separately, ended and in peace.
      Why does this soulless mate, continuously make us suffer even more (by not paying responsibilities obligated to this family, and doesnt leave us in peace..
      Continue to hurt hack and destroy.)

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