Breaking the Soulmate Connection

Breaking the soulmate connection can be a very difficult process but it can be done if you set your mind, heart and soul to the task. The soulmate connection, and soulmate relationships, are formed from a very deep soul level connection with another human being. These soulmate connections as they are formed and deepen over the time we spend with that soulmate become a part of us and part of our own soul so creating a termination to that bond can be a fairly painful process. Staying in the soulmate relationship, however, can also be painful, if the relationship has become unbearable and dysfunctional so you may need to consider which will produce the greatest personal growth, not for your soulmate, but for YOU.

So why exactly would you want to disconnect your soulmate connection? Perhaps you recognize, either from your own internal knowing or from guidance delivered to you in a soulmate reading, that it is time to end the soulmate relationship and move on to the next phase of your life. On the other hand, perhaps the soulmate relationship, and the soulmate lessons that come with it, are too painful for you at this particular time in our life and you need to disconnect for your own well being and happiness. Maybe you realize you need to temporarily break the soulmate connection to work through some of your own issues that have surfaced from your soulmate contract as a result of having this soulmate relationship in your life; you know the only way to make that happen is to create a break for the time being. Whatever your own personal situation or story, creating the soulmate disconnection will take some effort on your part and should not be considered a easy task.

breaking a soulmate connection is difficult

Breaking a Soulmate Connection

Before breaking the soulmate connection, we urge everyone to examine their personal motives for doing so and to make sure you are doing it for the right reasons. Are you doing it to truly disconnect yourself from a situation you feel is no longer serving you and your own personal growth? Are you doing it because you recongnize the soulmate contract is complete and there is no longer any reason to have this soulmate relationship in your life? Or are you doing it to try and create a reaction or response from your soulmate because they are not acting or behaving in the way you want or need them to? If you have had a soulmate reading and have been told you need to disconnect from the soulmate relationship for a period of time, creating the soulmate crisis point, so your soulmate can get their act together. Whatever the reason, please make sure you are doing it for the best and highest good of your soul and your own personal growth.

Once you have decided to breaking the soulmate connection you should probably fortify yourself with the resolve to cease all communication with the soulmate. This means phone calls, texting, Facebook, Twitter, email, smoke signal and all other forms of communication including meditations. All of these communictation mediums if activated will only serve to keep that soulmate connection alive. You may also choose to do a little ceremony, or ritual, where you put everything reminding you of your soulmate into a box or bag that you bind with black ribbon or wrap in black paper. There are some who may even suggest to toss that in the garbage or bury it, but I say to just put it up on a shelf somewhere because one day, when your heart and soul have healed, you might be able to cherish the soulmate memories and the life lessons they brought. If you are concerned the soulmate may still try communicate with you and keep the connection alive, you may also want to do a chord cutting ritual where you can physically unplug your soulmate from your energy and being able to connect with you psychically, spiritually or on the the astral planes. To do the chord cutting, lie down and take your right hand, starting at the top of your head where the crown chakra is and slowing bring it down over your head, throat, heart, solar plexus and down to your root chakra all the while asking the Divine to remove your connection to your soulmate. For particularly strong connections you may want to do this exercise more than once. You DO NOT need to pay anyone to do this for you nor do you need to pay anyone for aura cleansings, spriitual cleansings or anything else – you can do it yourself because your own emotion in doing so will be much stronger than paying someone hundreds or thousands of dollars to do so.

Breaking a soulmate connection

Breaking a Soulmate Connection


Creating a soulmate disconnection will not happen overnight. It is something that will take time. It could take months, even years, to completely disconnect from a soulmat energy, so be gentle with yourself. Again, just as working on yourself is the best way to draw the soulmate energy to you, working on yourself is the best way to discconect the soulmate energy that is no longer serving your or your life path in a positive way. More than likely your soulmate will feel the disconnection and disolution of your energy and will try to contact you to reel you back into their life. They will feel uncomfortable without the connection to you and the energy flow that was feeding them. When they communicate with you, if you have decided to break the soulmate connection, this will provide an exercise in setting boundaries with your soulmate if you are at that place where you know communication and contact with them will be to hard for you.

You may decide you want to tell them in advance you are breaking the soulmate connection and that futher contact from them will not be accepted. On the other hand, you may just decide to go quiet on your soulmate because having the conversation to end the soulmate contract may just be too painful for you. However and whatever you decide, it will take courage and strength on your part to end this contract.

Honor yourself. Take walks. Commune with nature. Spend time with your friends. Read. Meditate. Focus on you again because more than likely the soulmate relationship robbed you of much of your own personal time and it is time for you to connect with YOU again.

Are you frustrated with your soulmate relationship and wonder if it is time to disconnect the soulmate bond? Does the thought of being without your soulmate scare you? Are you worried you would never find true love or another soulmate relationship again? A psychic soulmate reading with soulmate psychics Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise can bring clarity to your soulmate relationships, help you understand your soulmate contract and provide support and guidance on how to sever the soulmate bond. Perhaps you are confused about the behaviors and actions of your soulmate and need guidance on how to handle them or maybe you need to communicate your own personal expectations to your soulmate so the relationship can grow and evolve. A psychic reading focused on love, relationships and your soulmate with Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise will help you see the nature of your soulmate relationship, the life lessons you need to learn as well as personal guidance and steps to take if it truly is time to break the soulmate bond.

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  • curtis friedman says:

    i need to disconnect from my soulmate of 19 years she lied to me about cheating with another man. i still love her but i cannot ever trust her again. she broke my heart!!!

    • Soulmate says:

      Hi Curtis
      Sadly sometimes, this is the lesson learned from these soulmate relationships. We are sorry to hear she has done this to you but you are right, you would never be able to truly trust her again. Many blessings to you!

  • Searching for answers says:

    I have met a soulmate with whom I’ve had a love relationship with in a past life. He came into my life through the church, but we are currently both in marriages with other partners and both of us have small children. I know I must have some unresolved issues to work out with this soulmate but I cannot figure out what they are, and it is causing me great emotional turmoil. I want it to stop, I want to know what I need to do to move on. I am also pretty sure my soulmate has no idea he is in fact my soulmate, but I know he does sense a connection with me. He just hasn’t done enough “soul searching” to realize the origin on these feelings or cares to look in to it any further.

    • Soulmate says:

      Soulmates take on many forms. They can be friends, co-workers, teachers even our pets. It is very probable you have a soulmate relationship with this person but he will just be a friend in this lifetime. Sometimes all you can do is focus your mind on other things and have to force it to focus on other things. It is ok to love them from afar… and release them to find you in the next lifetime.

  • Nightingale Willowcreek says:

    I was lucky enough to marry my soul mate. We were happy for a time, then it went toxic. We hurt each other profusely; equal in pain, but differing in manners of action. None of the actions can we take back. We lost ourselves and each other. We have been separated for a year now. In that year we tried a couple more times to put the pieces together, but try as we might, they no longer fit. We both carry a flame of love for one another- although there is a very fine line between love and hate. We also both carry a great deal of guilt, shame, pain, and resentment; both towards each other and towards our own selves. The last time we called it quits has been a few months now. We cannot speak to each other-its far too painful and poisonous. Yet our connection is as strong as ever…I don’t like it. I don’t want this pain that is associated with it. And yet neither of us are ready to sever the ties. We cannot fathom the thought of not feeling the other. And so we dance…its like a cha-cha, I swear! He feels for me and I for him…we ignore it, fight it and then test to see if its gone…if the test proves difficult to reach the other, we try harder until success. This is, in and of itself, toxic. But we cannot seem to stop!! Even when we try to stop, our subconscious continues this dance as if it were on autopilot. I’m so very desperate for this pain to end. He is too. I know all of the “whys”; what I need now is the “hows”.

  • Anthonyk747 says:

    Is it possible for a soulmate connection to be established, unknowingly, and unwillingly, as a purely, one-sided connection? Because I swear that is what it feels like that I have. Also, to be clear, we were NEVER engaged in any relationship of any kind, except for “platonic friends” over 3 years ago. Yet, for some reason, every single day, I wake up and think about her. I tried for 3 years straight to forget about her and NOTHING works! I, literally, gave up on trying to forget about her.

    I haven’t seen her or talked to her in over 3 years, yet for some extremely odd reason today I have been feeling VERY keen to try to establish connection to her, but under no circumstance do I want that to happen. It’s like a compulsion that I can’t control, despite my actual desires against the compulsion.

    The feelings that I am feeling right now are truly tearing me apart and I really hope that your disconnection methods work, and I hope that disconnecting is truly the right choice, because I do, one day, want to find a soulmate of mine to establish a relationship with, but that day cannot be now, because I am not financially, spiritually, or lively stable. I need my life to be stable before pursuing someone.

    The problem that I’m having, at the moment, with this lovely article, is that I cannot decide whether it would be a truly “good” idea to disconnect from her, since I do have some form of hope of maybe meeting her by chance one day in the future, when both our lives are stable.

    Will this disconnect cause harm to her, even if its completely one-sided for me? Also, will this disconnect mean that the re-connect can never happen again? A respond would be great!

    • Soulmate Reading says:

      The thing to consider here is that soulmate relationships can also be friendships and not romantic connections. This disconnection does not cause harm to the relationship it merely frees YOU from having them plugged in to your energy and releases you from some of the over stimulation it causes.

  • Dia says:

    Is it possible for one soulmate to feel the love and the other to completely forget and stop feeling the connection? My soulmate now says that he does not have any feelings and emotions towards me and has completely disconnected form me.

    • Soulmate Reading says:

      Unfortunately yes. Not all soulmate relationships are destined to last, actually most of them don’t. They are in our lives to teach us valuable life lessons and experiences.

  • D says:

    I have a physically tangible spiritual connection with my lover. We feel what the other is feeling, even over great distances. The problem is that we are both in other primary relationships and there are certain inevitable times when this connection becomes painful. Whilst neither of us want to end the relationship and sever the bond permanently, is there any way of temporarily detaching other than entering a state of deep anxi? Being caught unawares can be disconcerting at the very least, and it is not always possible to drop everything and meditate for two hours.

    • Soulmate Reading says:

      say out loud that you will not think about this now and use your hand and push the thoughts away pushing your hand away from your body. Or you can just run your hand over the front of your body, over all the chakras to disconnect the energy.

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