Closure in soulmate relationships is something many people seek when their soulmate relationship runs amok. There often comes a soulmate crisis point where it seems the relationship couldn’t possibly work out.
Since soulmates have such high highs, and low lows, the level of drama involved in these relationships can reach epic proportions. You’d think stuff like this only happens on shows like Dallas or Dynasty. Because of the extreme intensity of emotions between the couple, there is often not a middle ground. They love hard, and fight hard.
CLOSURE IN SOULMATE RELATIONSHIPS CAN BE TRICKY
Even though they are soulmates, there’s damage done to the relationship when they go at it. Someone has to be brave enough to stand their ground before things get completely out of control. Seeking closure in soulmate relationships is a very tricky and elusive thing. It’s difficult for someone to understand the levels of tolerance for bad behavior between soulmates. They often have the ability to forgive a soulmate in ways they could not with any other person.
For a soulmate to be seeking closure from the relationship, they really have to be pushed to their breaking point. No one wants to give up on a soulmate. It will be the hardest thing they’ve ever tried to do. More than likely they have tried to get closure from their soulmate more than once. And it didn’t work. Some people talk of cutting the cord or breaking the connection, but that’s not something you can do.
What you can do is deal with your connection in a different way. Think of it as a short rope tied between the two of you. You feel every move your soulmate makes because the rope is short between the two of you. However, if you learn to elongate the rope that ties the two of you together you don’t feel their every move and the connection. So although it’s still there it doesn’t restrict you as much at all.
You no longer feel the pull because there is so much rope between the two of you. In other words, you can still be tied to your soulmate, but it doesn’t have to affect you the same ways it used to. You can have more freedom with your thoughts and your emotions than you thought you ever could. So, when seeking closure in a soulmate relationship, don’t focus on cutting the connection between the two of you. Instead, focus on distancing yourself from the connection between the two of you.