Closure in soulmate relationships is something many people seek because their soulmate relationship as run amok. Due to the nature of soulmate relationships, there often comes a soulmate crisis point where it seems as though the relationship could not possibly work out.
Since soulmates have such high highs, and low lows, the level of drama involved in these relationships can reach epic proportions. You would think stuff like this only happens on shows like Dallas or Dynasty. Because of the extreme intensity of emotions between the couple, there is often not a middle ground. They love hard, and fight hard.
Even though they are soulmates, there is damage done to the relationship when these two go at it. Someone has to be brave enough to stand their ground before things between the soulmates get completely and utterly out of control. Seeking closure in soulmate relationships is a very tricky and elusive thing. It’s difficult for someone to understand the levels of tolerance for bad behavior between soulmates. They often have the ability to forgive a soulmate in ways they could not with any other person.
For a soulmate to be seeking closure from the relationship, they really have to be pushed to their breaking point. No one wants to give up on a soulmate. It will be the hardest thing they have ever tried to do. More than likely they have tried to get closure from their soulmate more than once, and it did not work. Some people talk of cutting the cord or breaking the connection, but that is not something you can do.
What you can do is deal with the connection you share in a different way. Think of your connection as a short rope tied between the two of you. You feel every move your soulmate makes, because the rope is short between the two of you. However, if you learn to elongate the rope that ties the two of you together you don’t feel their every move and the connection, although still there, doesn’t restrict you as much at all.
You no longer feel the pull because there is so much rope between the two of you. In other words, you can still be tied to your soulmate, but it doesn’t have to affect you the same ways it used to. You can have more freedom with your thoughts and your emotions than you thought you ever could. So, when seeking closure in a soulmate relationship, don’t focus on cutting the connection between the two of you. Instead, focus on distancing yourself from the connection between the two of you.
Please also check out 5 Steps to Get Closure From a Soulmate Relationship.