Surprise, You May Have More Than One Soulmate!

Many of you wonder why you may have more than one soulmate relationship. Not everyone does, but the majority of us do.

For most folks our lives are a progression of relationships. Some of those relationships are clearly soulmate relationships, while others more mundane.

There is, however, a purpose for every relationship we have in our lives. This also includes relationships that aren’t with soulmates.


We’re all here on Earth to learn and grow. Our lives here are for the ultimate perfection of our souls. We can only accomplish that through relationships, because that’s how we spiritually evolve.

While we’re in the relationship, and the relationship is thriving, we’re happy and content. But when we’re happy and in love, it doesn’t provide us the greatest potential for spiritual growth.

It’s the trials and tribulations of those relationships, especially soulmate relationships, that create the growth we need to expand our spiritual awareness. Very often our growth comes from the devastating loss of a soulmate relationship. How we deal, manage and work through that loss makes us evolve. For most of us, we have no choice but to grow and learn from that experience.

And that’s exactly why we have more than one soulmate.

We’re supposed to expand our character and consciousness from soulmate relationships. So it may take more than one soulmate to create that growth. For example, you have a soulmate relationship when you are twenty-five years old. And you really believe they’re the one. After eight months they end the relationship. You’re thrown into a downward spiral of doom and gloom. And you’re convinced you will never love again because it’s just too painful.

Surprise, You May Have More Than One Soulmate!
Surprise, You May Have More Than One Soulmate!

After months of tears and having a relationship with Ben and Jerry, you start meditating and practicing yoga. This is to help manage the hurt, loss and betrayal. Right there your personal growth is happening. Would you have taken that up if they hadn’t dumped you? Maybe, maybe not. Actually, probably not, because you were too focused on them and the relationship.

Then one day you meet someone who is very spiritual, with a strong yoga and meditation practice. And now your next soulmate relationship begins. You marry this soulmate and live happily ever after. But you wouldn’t have met them if you didn’t have more than one soulmate.


We have more than one soulmate because our lives are a series of lessons we learn from our relationships. Does this mean everyone has more than one soulmate? Absolutely not! There are those who will only have one soulmate during their lifetime. These are very unique relationships and you stay together learning your life lessons as part of the relationship.

Sometime we connect to one soulmate for a lifetime. June Carter and Johnny Cash were lucky enough to have this type of relationship. It was a battle to get to the relationship. Johnny tried for many years until June said yes. But when she did, their love lasted the rest of their lives

Some of you may be dismayed that you have more than one soulmate. Please don’t allow this to worry you. Step out of your emotion and look at the situation as it truly is. It’s the synchronicity of the Universe working in our lives.

It makes sense that we have more than one soulmate. We really should consider it luck. We have multiple opportunities to get it right as well as more opportunities for spiritual growth. After all, that’s the reason we are all here.


Originally posted on 2012-03-27 @ 8:58 am

14 thoughts on “Surprise, You May Have More Than One Soulmate!”

  1. I think i have a soulmate, but he’s seeing another who i think is also his soulmate. I am devastated with jealousy, but i also feel i truly have to go. Is this even possible. It’s painful.

    • yes this can happen we have multiple soulmates in our lives. and letting him go is a very hard, but courageous thing to do

  2. me and my dad always had a very close bond and always felt a strong connection.we were best buddies and shared almost everything. he was the one who believed in me, had faith in me and knew me in and out. he was the one who always supported me in any thing i did and decided. he always saw the best in me.he passed away 2 months back, i feel devastated…like a big part of me have left my body…at the same time, i also feel a strong presence of him being my spirit guide as its a very tough time for me. after leaving my job to spend time with him in his final days, i have not been able to get another job as of yet even with so many attempts and even recommendations…and there are too many criticisms and judgements around me…all this is truly heartbreaking as i have been a top student during my academic years and was doing well in my career once. i truly could connect to what you have mentioned as “dark night of the soul”

    • Hi Nisha I just read your post and I hope that things are better for you 14 months on. I hope that you have a job that you enjoy more too. It must be a difficult time for you. All the best for 2015.

  3. I lost my husband 5 months ago. He was my first love when we was teenagers and we had to part ways and then 30 years later we were reunited and we got married. We were married for 2 1/2 years and then he died of a sudden out of the blue heart attack. There was no warning. My question is was he my twin flame soulmate and if so will I meet another soulmate or am I supposed to be alone for the rest of my life now. I’m in 40’s.

    • Hi Annette first of all we are so sorry for the loss of your soulmate.. we dont answer questions in this public forum. You can reach us for a reading using either the or services. Or try our show on Weds nights on CBS Radio – we take a few free callers during the show.


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