Many of you wonder why you may have more than one soulmate relationship. Not everyone does, but the majority of us do.
For most folks our lives are a progression of relationships. Some of those relationships are clearly soulmate relationships, while others more mundane.
There is, however, a purpose for every relationship we have in our lives. This also includes relationships that aren’t with soulmates.
MORE THAN ONE SOULMATE ~ MORE SPIRITUAL GROWTH
We’re all here on Earth to learn and grow. Our lives here are for the ultimate perfection of our souls. We can only accomplish that through relationships, because that’s how we spiritually evolve.
While we’re in the relationship, and the relationship is thriving, we’re happy and content. But when we’re happy and in love, it doesn’t provide us the greatest potential for spiritual growth.
It’s the trials and tribulations of those relationships, especially soulmate relationships, that create the growth we need to expand our spiritual awareness. Very often our growth comes from the devastating loss of a soulmate relationship. How we deal, manage and work through that loss makes us evolve. For most of us, we have no choice but to grow and learn from that experience.
And that’s exactly why we have more than one soulmate.
We’re supposed to expand our character and consciousness from soulmate relationships. So it may take more than one soulmate to create that growth. For example, you have a soulmate relationship when you are twenty-five years old. And you really believe they’re the one. After eight months they end the relationship. You’re thrown into a downward spiral of doom and gloom. And you’re convinced you will never love again because it’s just too painful.
After months of tears and having a relationship with Ben and Jerry, you start meditating and practicing yoga. This is to help manage the hurt, loss and betrayal. Right there your personal growth is happening. Would you have taken that up if they hadn’t dumped you? Maybe, maybe not. Actually, probably not, because you were too focused on them and the relationship.
Then one day you meet someone who is very spiritual, with a strong yoga and meditation practice. And now your next soulmate relationship begins. You marry this soulmate and live happily ever after. But you wouldn’t have met them if you didn’t have more than one soulmate.
OUR LIVES ARE A SERIES OF LESSONS
We have more than one soulmate because our lives are a series of lessons we learn from our relationships. Does this mean everyone has more than one soulmate? Absolutely not! There are those who will only have one soulmate during their lifetime. These are very unique relationships and you stay together learning your life lessons as part of the relationship.
Sometime we connect to one soulmate for a lifetime. June Carter and Johnny Cash were lucky enough to have this type of relationship. It was a battle to get to the relationship. Johnny tried for many years until June said yes. But when she did, their love lasted the rest of their lives.
Some of you may be dismayed that you have more than one soulmate. Please don’t allow this to worry you. Step out of your emotion and look at the situation as it truly is. It’s the synchronicity of the Universe working in our lives.
It makes sense that we have more than one soulmate. We really should consider it luck. We have multiple opportunities to get it right as well as more opportunities for spiritual growth. After all, that’s the reason we are all here.
Originally posted on 2012-03-27 @ 8:58 am