Breaking the soulmate connection is a very difficult process.
A soulmate relationship is a very deep soul connection with another human being. They form and deepen over time we spend with that soulmate. They become part of us and part of our own soul.
However, not all soulmate relationships are easy relationships. Because there are lessons to be learned, and many choose to learn the hard way, many soulmate crisis points occur. When lessons are not learned they are repeated, which can create a high level of drama within the soulmate relationship. It can get so bad that it becomes a dysfunctional soulmate relationship.
And it’s at times like these that soulmates find themselves wanting to break the connection between them.
EXAMINE YOUR MOTIVES
So why exactly would you want to break your soul connection? Perhaps you recognize it’s time to end your soulmate relationship and move on to the next chapter of your life.
On the other hand, perhaps the relationship is too painful for you. You may feel you need to disconnect for your own well-being and happiness. Perhaps you need to temporarily remove yourself from the relationship to work through issues and life lessons. Whatever your situation, you must first understand that the connection between you cannot be broken. But you can distance yourself from the power it has over you to some degree.
Before going forward we urge everyone to examine their personal motives. And make sure you’re doing it for the right reasons. Are you doing it to truly separate yourself from a situation that’s no longer serving you and your own personal growth?
Or could you be doing it to create a reaction from your soulmate because they’re not acting or behaving the way you want? Are you hoping this will create the soulmate crisis point, so your soulmate can get their act together? Whatever the reason, please make sure you’re doing it for the best and highest good for you.
CUT OFF ALL COMMUNICATION
Once you decide to move forward and press the mute button on your soulmate connection, you should cease all communication with them. This means phone calls, texting, social media, the whole nine yards. This includes communications about them, to yourself, your friends and your family.
If you don’t it only serves to keep the soulmate connection heightened. When you’re constantly thinking, talking and focusing on your soulmate you’re only adding to the power of your connection.
Muting the power of your soulmate connection won’t happen overnight. It’s something that will take time. It could take months, even years, to lessen soulmate connection energy. So be gentle with yourself.
Again, working on yourself is the best way pull away from soulmate energy that’s no longer serving your or your spiritual path in a positive way. It would not be fair to you, or anyone else dealing with a soulmate connection, if you couldn’t do something to lessen it’s negative affect on you.
The universe allows you the ability to distance yourself from the affects of your connection when you’re not the one making a mess of the relationship. Since it’s not your fault, they will let you have a way to mute the power it has over you. It must allow for self preservation when the soulmate relationship gets too far off track.
More than likely your soulmate will feel the withdrawal of your energy. They may even feel you disconnecting from them, no matter how far apart you are. This may be why they suddenly contact you out of the blue.
They’ll feel uncomfortable without the connection and the energy flow that was feeding them. When they communicate with you this will provide an exercise in setting boundaries with them. Especially if you’re still in a space where communication will be to hard for you. It will really stun them when you close off communication and can cause them to finally realize they must change their ways.
SHOULD YOU TELL THEM?’
You may want to tell them in advance you’re breaking the connection. Again, you cannot truly break it. So there’s no need to announce what you’re doing. Besides it’s better to show it with your actions than say it with your words. So when they try and reach out to you or stop by to see you and notice a change in you, it will shake them to their core.
When they see you no longer allow your soulmate connection to overshadow and take over your common sense, boundaries and self respect, it will be hard for them to handle. They will want things to go back to the way they used to be.
Hopefully you will use your time distancing yourself from your soulmate connection to give yourself strength. And you will spiritually center yourself firmly to where the intensity of the connection no longer pulls you off track.
Honor yourself. Take walks. Commune with nature. Spend time with your friends. Read. Meditate. And focus on you again. Your soulmate relationship, especially if dysfunctional, robbed you of much of your own personal time. And it’s time for you to connect with YOU again.
Originally posted on 2012-02-16 @ 7:15 am