Losing your soulmate can be one of the worst, if not the worst, experiences in your life. That unique connection you share with another human being is one of the greatest feelings in the world. But losing your soulmate can be one of the worst feelings in the world. Because you think you’ll never feel love like that again.
LOSING YOUR SOULMATE FOR A WHILE
How can you replace, or replicate, a one of a kind connection? As we wrote in our article Soulmates Don’t Grow on Trees, you obviously can’t just buy another one on E-bay or at the mall. What took you so long to finally find, only to wind up losing, is a devastating blow. But before you sink deeper into depression it’s the end of the world in many cases.
In some cases there’s a good reason for losing your soulmate. They may be causing drama and sabotaging your relationship. Losing your soulmate for a while might actually benefit your relationship in the long run.Time apart, when they have had some time to think, and really know what it is like to lose YOU, could be all it takes for them to get the wake up call they need.
Wouldn’t you rather lose your soulmate for a while to have your relationship be stronger because of that time apart? Or would you rather not lose your soulmate now, allowing them cause even more damage that could ruin the relationship for good anyway?
ARE YOU RESPONSIBLE?
If you’ve done something truly terrible hopefully you’ve learned your lesson. If you’re responsible for losing your soulmate, it could take a long while before you have a chance to get them back. But don’t make a nuisance of yourself or disrespect them. Back off. We know you want them back. But you may not deserve them back right now.
There are consequences to our actions. And your losing your soulmate, often temporarily, can be one of them. Your soulmate needs to get over their anger. Chasing them like a lunatic usually backfires. They just lash out all that anger on YOU. Give your soulmate some time to heal. And use that time to make sure you learned your lesson. But make sure that the lesson sticks with you. You need to get it right. Because if they do give you another chance, that could be your very last one.
If you did something minor and your soulmate is using that as an excuse to end your relationship, stand strong. Don’t let them punish you that way. Don’t let fear make you grovel, beg, and apologize profusely when you shouldn’t have to. Being fearful of losing your soulmate can often make your soulmate UNAFRAID of losing YOU. You don’t want that to happen. Because if that fear goes, the chemistry dims and their respect for you goes out the window.
If you’re losing a soulmate because they have passed on, you’re going to need time to heal. You may meet another soulmate at some point in your life. But for right now you have to focus on just yourself. This type of pain and loss is especially hard. So get support and help from others when you need it. Take time to grieve, be good to yourself and focus on some positive self-care.