Soulmate Breakup – How to Cope
A soulmate breakup is a difficult thing to deal with. Breaking up is hard to do, but breaking up with a soulmate will be one of the most difficult things you ever do. As you are more than aware by now a romantic soulmate relationship is very intense. The connection the two of you share is on all levels – physical, mental, emotional and spiritual. On the other hand regular relationships may only be on the physical and mental, or even just physical only.
A soulmate breakup will make you feel like you are losing part of yourself. This is someone you have merged with and joined to and removing that energy from yours can make you feel like a part of you is dying. And it is a death of sorts. It is about change and transformation, which is what death is anyway. You are saying goodbye not only to your soulmate, but to a part of yourself. It is heart-breaking and you will suffer, but you will get through it all and you will love again. Just not next week. Healing from a soulmate breakup will take time.
There are many reasons for a soulmate breakup and choosing to end that soulmate relationship. Perhaps you realize your time together is ended, which really indicates you have reached the end of your soulmate contract. You find you are no longer happy in the relationship even though you have both worked on it. Maybe you are the only one who has worked on improving your relationship but your soulmate partner has been lazy. You have been patient with them, encouraged them to change, but they still are not moving the relationship in the direction you would like.
On the other hand, maybe your soulmate has been treating you disrespectfully, not honoring the connection you share and making you feel disempowered. If that is the case, would it not be better to take back your own power from your soulmate so you can get along with your life, and meet someone else who will respect you? It is not in the Divine plan for any of us to be disrespected, degraded and mistreated. When we are, it is a sign that we should do something about it.
When you experience a soulmate breakup you will see the connection is still alive and it will take some time to break that. We have presented some guidelines for disconnecting with your soulmate in Breaking the Soulmate Connection. It will take time for the connection to dissipate. It will take some time for you to feel whole again. Honor that. Honor yourself. Allow yourself to grieve as you work through the soulmate breakup process. Be good to yourself!