When You Can’t Find Your Soulmate

If you can’t find your soulmate you become very frustrated. And especially if you’ve been searching for them for a what seems like an eternity. Why haven’t you found them yet? What must you do to find your soulmate? Many of you have either spent a lot of time alone. Or you’ve been in one relationship after another that didn’t work out. So you want to know what specific reasons may stop you from finding your soulmate as well as what steps your must take to find your soulmate partner.


We usually discover many of you are getting in the way of finding your soulmate.  Now we’re not saying it’s all your fault. But you can actually create blocks and delays preventing a real soulmate relationship from entering your life. If you waste your time with the wrong people, in the wrong relationships, you definitely put your energy into making a relationship work with the wrong person.

When You Can't Find Your Soulmate

When You Can’t Find Your Soulmate

Wouldn’t it be better to free yourself to find the right one who has a greater potential to be your soulmate? You can’t find your soulmate when you are so caught up in a dysfunctional relationship. Sometimes though, the universe will throw your soulmate into your life when you’re involved with the wrong person to help you end it once and for all. This way your soulmate would serve as the catalyst for changes you need to move forward with your life.

You could be mistaking the wrong person for a soulmate. Sometimes our desire to be with the wrong person is so great because we feel a connection to them. So we can mistakenly believe they’re soulmates. In these situations, we should all run for the hills. There is however, a reason for this ‘wrong person’ for being in your life. This karmic relationship is designed to teach and show you this isn’t where you are supposed to be.


Looking for the wrong things in a partner can also keep you from finding your soulmate. If your main criteria are that he is rich, handsome, and drives a nice car, you may be putting obstacles in the way of meeting a soulmate. Your soulmate can be handsome, have money and drive a nice car. Then again, he may not. Do you want to settle down with someone who can give you the finer things in life? Or would you rather find your soulmate? If so, you may have to forgo some of your other criteria and accept them as they are. You can’t find your soulmate if you’re really looking for the wrong characteristics for a true soul connection.

You may not believe soulmates actually exist. Of course your opinion will change when you do find one. If you’re not open to connecting with your soulmate, the universe may put them “on hold” until you are. What’s the point in bringing a soulmate relationship into your life if you’re not ready for it?

If you really want to find your soulmate, do what you can to help bring him into your life, instead of creating obstacles for them. For further reading please check out When Will I Meet My Soulmate?   and Find Yourself..Find your Soulmate.


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  2. So how do you find your soulmate?

  3. But why have I had to wait so long? Will I have to wait that much longer?

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