When You Can’t Find Your Soulmate

If you can’t find your soulmate you become very frustrated, especially if you have been searching for them for a what seems like an eternity. Why haven’t you found them yet? What must you do to find your soulmate? Many of you have either spent a lot of time alone or been in one relationship after another that did not work out. So many of you want to know what specific reason may stop your from finding your soulmate as well as what steps your must take to find your soulmate partner.

More often than not, we discover that many of you are getting in the way of finding your soulmate.  Now we are not saying it is all your fault, but you can actually create blocks and delays preventing the real soulmate relationship from entering your life.

when you can't find your soulmate

When You Can’t Find Your Soulmate

If you waste your time with the wrong people, and in the wrong relationships, you definitely put your energy and effort into making a relationship work with Mr. Wrong. Wouldn’t it be better to free yourself to find Mr. Right, who has a greater potential to be your soulmate? You can’t find your soulmate when you are so caught up in a dysfunctional relationship. Sometimes though, the universe will throw your soulmate into your life when you are involved with the wrong person to help you end it once and for all. In this way, your soulmate would serve as the catalyst you so need in your life to create the change you need to move forward with your life.

You could be mistaking the wrong person for your soulmate. Sometimes our desire to be with this wrong person is so great, because we feel a connection to them, that we can mistakenly believe they are soulmate partners. In these situations, we should all run for the hills. There is however, a reason for this ‘wrong person’ relationship for being in your life. This karmic relationship is designed to teach and show you this is not where you are supposed to be.

Looking for the wrong things in a partner can also keep you from finding your soulmate. If your main criteria are that he is rich, handsome, and drives a nice car, you may be putting obstacles in the way of meeting your soulmate. Your soulmate can be handsome, have money and drive a nice car. Then again, he may not. Do you want to settle down with someone who can give you the finer things in life, or would you rather find your soulmate? If so, you may have to forgo some of your other criteria and accept them as they are. You can’t find your soulmate if you are really looking for the ‘wrong’ characteristics for a true soul connection.

You may not believe soulmates actually exist. Of course your opinion will change when you do find him. If you are not open to connecting with your soulmate, the universe may put him “on hold” until you are. What is the point in bringing a soulmate relationship into your life if you are not ready for it?

If you really want to find your soulmate, do what you can to help bring him into your life, instead of creating obstacles for them. For further reading please check out When Will I Meet My Soulmate?   and Find Yourself..Find your Soulmate.


  1. So how do you find your soulmate?

  2. But why have I had to wait so long? Will I have to wait that much longer?

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