Are you wearing soulmate glasses? When we’re in relationships with someone we really care about we tend to only see the best side of them. Since we’re unable to see them clearly we can’t see them as they really are. We see them through the illusion created by the soulmate connection. The soulmate connection is a very powerful thing. So we see them through our soulmate glasses.
SOULMATE GLASSES CREATE AN ILLUSION
When we’re in a soulmate relationship we tend to see the best in our partners. We see them through the lens of the illusion our soulmate glasses creates. And the power of the soulmate connection is all it takes. But the soulmate connection doesn’t give someone the justification to mistreat you. The mistreatment come in many forms. And usually doesn’t manifest immediately. So we’ll only see bad behavior when we’ve been in a relationship with them for a while.
In the beginning everything is great. It always is as you both basque in the glow of your soulmate connection. You spend a lot of time together and you talk and text daily. You talk about your connection and how great it is. And you discuss plans for your future together.
Then after some weeks, or months, things start to shift. And it changes into what is more realistic in terms of the relationship. The amount of communication declines. Although you still see each other regularly it may not have the frenzy it did in the beginning of the relationship. This isn’t an indication that something is wrong. It doesn’t signify your soul connection is waning either. You have just arrived at the more realistic place for your relationship to exist. And this is normal.
ARE YOU SEEING CLEARLY?
However, your soulmate could shift into the space where they become a bad romantic partner. If this happens, how do you view them? Do you see them realistically? Or do you see through your soulmate glasses? You may be more tolerant of bad behavior from a soulmate. But do you see them realistically in relation to how you value yourself?
If they start taking you for granted, do you make excuses saying they’re just overwhelmed with work? Have they stopped spending quality time with you and instead treat you like a booty call? And if so, do you slough it off because the sex is great and you have incredible chemistry? Are they verbally or emotionally abusive but you excuse it because they’re your soulmate?
Seeing soulmates through soulmate glasses allows us to forgive the little flaws we see here and there. We can forgive the misunderstandings, miscommunications, missed communications and showing up late. Because of the soulmate connection we tolerate more. And we put up with more crap than we would from a non-spiritual connection. That’s the nature of the soulmate relationship.
TIME TO TAKE OFF THE GLASSES
There are some behaviors, however, where we have the right to take off the soulmate glasses. And it’s time to see the situation as realistically.
- If you soulmate cheats on you
- When they go back to an ex
- If they can’t decide what they want and take you on an emotional roller coaster ride
- When they make you feel devalued, degraded or just plain flat out disgusted
- If they refuse to work through issues and address bad behavior
Sometimes seeing the reality of your relationship can be difficult and confusing. The illusion, created by the soulmate connection, can often mask what is really happening. If you are having a difficult time taking off your soulmate glasses, a Sarah and Sophia will help cut through the fog.