Soulmate stress is a lot different from mundane relationship stress. Because of the all-encompassing emotions and profound connection, soulmate stress is in a class of it’s own. Any relationship can make you lose your mind to a certain degree. But when it comes to soulmate stress, people often don’t recognize who the are. Soulmate relationships can literally drive them crazy.
CAUSES OF SOULMATE STRESS
Soulmate stress can lead people to do things they’ve never done before. It causes some folks to allow negative behaviors they wouldn’t tolerate from another human being. It can make people who’re normally confident become very, very insecure. So why does this happen?
For some reason, people use the soulmate connection as an excuse for bad decisions and behaviors. They use it as an excuse to lower their standards. This belief is the primary cause of soulmate stress. How can you possibly think the Universe would create a connection between you and someone else that would cause you to demean yourself? It wouldn’t. That’s not how the Universe works. You choose to do it. And in choosing the excuses over your own inner strength, you create soulmate stress.
WATCH YOUR REACTIONS
Now it isn’t your fault your soulmate may be bringing anxiety into your relationship. The blame is on them. But how you react to that stress, well that’s all on you. You can follow them down the rabbit hole or you can keep your feet firmly planted in reality. The faith you have in your soulmate experience is for you to use productively. When you lose that faith, and dwell in fear, you behave destructively. That may be why your soulmate is bringing stress into your relationship.
Do you think it’s a good idea that you do it too? Shouldn’t you lead by example and show your soulmate your faith to combat their fear? That would be a much wiser choice and would help take the tension out of the relationship. The bottom line is that stress can come with any relationship. Life isn’t easy, and neither are relationships. How you handle it predicts your future path in your relationship.
You shouldn’t allow the damage to perpetuate itself. And you shouldn’t contribute to it or be responsible for any further damage. Or you can get caught up in fear, anxiety, obsessing. And this just throws gasoline on an already raging fire. Worrying about a situation causes stress. That is all it creates.
Worry and anxiety doesn’t give you the state of mind to make good decisions. It makes you weak and it makes you lack clarity. When you’re in an emotional state you can make matters worse. Every soulmate needs to understand that almost all relationships come with stress. That doesn’t have to break you as a couple. Relying on one another, getting support from one another, and getting through stressful time together can actually make a couple stronger. So the choice is yours. Either let soulmate stress make you a stronger couple with a solid bond, or a weaker couple.