A soulmate relationship can be just as dysfunctional as any other relationship. When a soulmate relationship becomes dysfunctional, change will be required.
Without creating change, the soulmate relationship can and will end, just like any other relationship. A soulmate relationship is not exempt from problems, bad patterns, and break ups. Without creating change for the better, your soulmate relationship will only get worse over time. Many times people who have found themselves in a soulmate relationship rely on the connection to keep them together. They think no matter what happens, or what either of them do, that connection alone will keep the soulmate relationship going strong. They also believe that the strong connection they share in their soulmate relationship will never change in a negative way.
All of this is wrong. A soulmate relationship is just like any other, and if your soulmate relationship has changed for the worse, it is time you tried changing it for the better. People often take the ones they care about the most for granted, and the day to day grind of our lives creeps in and takes the romance out of our relationship. When things like that happen, even the best of relationships start to crack until eventually they shatter into a billion pieces.
If it is not too late, your soulmate relationship can be salvaged with some effort on both parts. No one wants to lose a soulmate, so invest the energy it takes to keep yours alive and well. Find some way to bring the romance back between the two of you. Make the time to communicate about your hopes as dreams in a positive way rather than just the two of you whining and complaining about the every day challenges. Remind yourself how lucky you both are to have found each other and how blessed you should both feel. Be grateful for the love you share, and think about what you could be doing better. Could you communicate more lovingly and politely? Could you do some little things to show your soul mate you care? All it can take sometimes is for one of you to begin making positive changes for it to rub off on the other. Instead of focusing on what THEY could be doing, focus on what YOU could be doing to make the soulmate relationship a much better one for the BOTH of you. Don’t just give of yourself for personal gain, that defeats the very purpose. Do it for you both and the rare soulmate relationship you have.
Sometimes the changes that are brought through a soulmate relationship are not the best changes you could make for yourself. Unfortunately, some changes that can be creates include insecurity, doubt or fear. To read more on this check out our other posting Could Some Soulmate Relationships be Bad for You?
If your soulmate relationship has taken a nose dive for the worse, contact Sophia Elise and Sarah Adelle. As relationship experts specializing in twin flame and soulmate relationships, they can help you create change in yours!