Do you find yourself doubting your soulmate connection? This is not entirely surprising to us or many of our readers. Many people find themselves in various situations where they begin to doubt their soulmate connection exists. The feelings were so deep and instantaneous, right off the bat, they didn’t make sense. Of course if feels great to be swept away by the emotion of such a strong connection, but it also feels foreign. This is not like any emotions you have felt before or since.
How can something like this be real? It makes no sense. You haven’t known this person long it feels you have known them forever. You thought you loved before, but this is so much more than you experienced before on numerous levels. Can this feeling last? Can someone feel like this forever? Yes, and yes. Don’t begin doubting your soulmate connection, this is what encountering your soulmate is like at the beginning.
As the relationship progresses, you or your soulmate may find yourselves doubting the connection again. Why? As lessons present themselves and deep issues are brought to the surface, chaos and drama can as well. What was once a perfect relationship has now become something you hardly recognize. You may both find yourselves doubting the connection ever existed, because if it did, how did it come to this?
If you two are really connected, why has it gone so wrong all of a sudden? Why has your soulmate changed or why won’t they make the changes necessary to improve the relationship? Has the connection been broken? No, the connection has not been broken.
In reality, one or both of you, are avoiding the growth you are supposed to experience on your journey together. Changes are supposed to be made, but instead are being resisted. Instead of changes being made to improve yourselves and your relationship, you may find yourselves headed toward a dysfunctional mess. People in this situation focus so much on how their soulmate changed, or that they won’t change instead of looking at themselves.
They changed too, whether they realize it or not. They are playing a part in this as well, by contributing somehow and enabling their soulmate and their bad choices. They do not realize what their soulmate brought about within them in reaction to their bad choices is their lesson to learn. Until both take a long hard look at what the universe has brought to their attention for them to grow and learn the relationship suffers. The connection is still there, it is just being used the wrong way.
Soulmates are not supposed to hurt each other, although they often do. Not because they do not love each other, it is simply because they refuse, for the moment, to learn their lessons.
We also invite you to read Is Your Soulmate Relationship at a Dead-End?