Many people think getting closure from a soulmate relationship is impossible. Well it can be difficult but not impossible. The connection between soulmates can be very powerful. But that doesn’t mean the connection has power over you forever. So how does one go about getting closure from a soulmate relationship?
CLOSURE FROM A SOULMATE TAKES WORK
First, you must get over the myth soulmate relationships never end. Just as a soulmate comes into your life they can exit at some point. If one of you exercises your free will you union can reach an end point. The first step in getting closure from a soulmate is to cut yourself some slack. There’s no way you’re going to make this happen quickly. So you need to accept that reality for starters.
Give yourself some time to feel sad. You need time to grieve the loss of your soulmate so you can then go about getting closure. Just don’t take more time than you really need. The grieving process is different for everyone. So don’t fight the process, go with it. If you can’t accept the loss of the relationship, there’s no way of getting closure.
Try not to focus on just the good times you had in your relationship as this can keep you stuck. Focusing only on the negativity will also prevent you from getting closure. Mourn the good and the bad , then you can begin to let go and move on. The soulmate relationship was part of your life. And it’s sad it can’t be part of your future.
HOW WAS YOUR SOULMATE EXPERIENCE?
How you see your soulmate experience is up to you. So you can either feel blessed and take the lessons from it. Or you can feel cursed and wish you never met them. If you chose the later, you won’t be getting closure. But you won’t get the lesson you were supposed to learn from it either. Soulmates don’t come into our lives so we can have a great love, moonlight walks on the beach and awesome sex. They come with a price and that price is lessons. Learning your lessons can go a long long way towards getting closure from a soulmate.
In getting closure, you have to focus on your life, not the life of your soulmate. So cut contact with them. And stay away from social media sites where you can spy on them or hear something about them. Perhaps after you have closure you can have contact with them or see them on social media sites without it being a detriment to you. Keep from talking to others about your soulmate. And cease any internal dialogues with yourself. Constantly talking about them will not help getting closure. All that talking actually keeps you from getting closure because you’re verbally making them part of your life.
Getting closure from a soulmate relationship is something that will take time. So be good to yourself. This is the perfect time to practice positive self care. Give yourself a chance to release the relationship so healing can begin.