Soulmates can always find a way to create a healthy, happy, long-lasting relationship. The soulmate connection is there, so they have all they need. What really makes or breaks a soulmate relationship is what they do with that connection. Soulmates ca always find a way to make that connection work if they are ready, willing and able.
In all relationships, there should be boundaries, and consequences for crossing them. For some reason boundaries are rarely created in soulmate relationships, and if they are, the consequences for crossing them are non-existent. Why is that? Most soulmate couples are so afraid to lose their soulmate that allow them to run amok.
How can that create a good soulmate relationship? It can’t, and that is why many soulmate couples have the drama and heartache that they do. Many soulmates break all the relationship rules in soulmate relationships. More often than not, they lowered their standards of behavior and treatment for their soulmate. Is it any wonder why their relationship sunk to such low levels? It shouldn’t be.
You Need More Than the Soulmate Connection
The connection will always be there between the soulmate couple, but it is not the connection that provides a positive relationship. That is up to each individual member of the soulmate pair. They choose how to behave towards their soulmate, and what they will let them get away with. Simply put, there are too nice to their soulmate and let them walk all over them. That is their choice, and they each must accept the consequences of their choices.
You cannot blame the universe or a higher power if you accept mistreatment. The universe did not allow it, you did. If you choose, like many, to use the fear of losing your soulmate to accept disrespectful behavior then accept the consequences for doing so. Either stand strong and make your relationship strong, or respond out of weakness and have a weak relationship. The choice, and the outcome, are up to the soulmates. No one else.
The universe can provide assistance, but they cannot do it for you. They created the bond between the couple and then let them do with it what they please. If the two soulmates are doing the right thing, they will always find a way to stay together, regardless of the hurdles in their way. When soulmates work as a team, they are unstoppable. When they are working against one another, and not for their own good, the relationship becomes a cause for misery.
If your soulmate has left you and appears to have moved on, don’t despair. Soulmates can always find their way back you. Soulmates reunite all the time. The connection is still there, even if it is not felt as strongly. If your soulmate has done too much damage and you have to move on, that is one thing. But in any other case, soulmates can give one another a second chance at getting it right. The thing is, in order to get it right, they have to do it right.