What is the degree of your soulmate strength? Soulmate relationships are designed to make stronger, not weaker. So why is it some soulmate relationships make you behave in a weak and disempowered way? We have written about the strength between soulmates. The strength of the connection, love, commitment and so much more. But there is also a weakness associated with the connection, love and commitment. When it comes to soulmates, the strength of our emotion for our soulmate quite can make us feel powerless and cause us to act in ways that are perceived as weak.
Soulmate Strength – Strong or Weak?
In this particular situation though strength and weakness reveal themselves at the wrong times. For example, if your soulmate is weak, and cannot embrace the soulmate connection, you should not use your strength to help the weaker soulmate become stronger. If you do this, you will become weak as well and do the wrong things to support and enable their weakness.
If your soulmate is not engaging with you fully, and is in and out of your life, they will be able to use your soulmate connection against you. Now it is time for the excuses: “I know I shouldn’t let them do this, but they are my soulmate, and I am afraid of losing them.”
This fear will cause you to say, think and do all the wrong things. Your soulmate connection with this person is now not being utilized to pursue the things you need to do in this relationship. Instead of giving you the strength to address the lessons you need to learn, you allow the connection to be your excuse to be driven by fear. Your soulmate is already doing that, which is creating the problem in the first place. So how could you think that by doing the same thing, your relationship will improve? It won’t. It keeps the two of you stuck in fear and weakness, rather than acceptance and strength.
When you allow your soulmate to use your connection the wrong way, you both wind up hurting and frustrated. Unfortunately, you will be the one with the most pain and frustration. The person who has accepted and embraced the soulmate connection should be using that as their strength. It should be what you hold on to, rather than cling to out of fear. If you want your soulmate to have the strength to make changes and be brave, shouldn’t you lead by example? If you are filled with weakness and fear, how can you expect your soulmate to be brave and courageous? You know how strong your bond is, and instead of finding peace, comfort and validation in that, you are worried and miserable. Now you are taking this blessing and turning it into a curse.
This is all wrong. There is a reason why your soulmate is not “ready” and your relationship is not moving forward. Instead of pinning it all on them and wondering why they are not getting it together, making changes and doing what they need to do, look at what you may be doing, or not doing,that could be causing them to remain in “soulmate limbo”. It is better for you and your soulmate relationship if you approach it from the position of soulmate strength, as opposed to soulmate weakness. In soulmate relationships, only the strong survive!