Dwelling on Your Ex or Past Relationship
Dwelling on Your Ex or Past Relationship
Do you often find yourself dwelling on your ex? Do you hope and fantasize a past relationship will come back into your life? Do you stare at the calender, every day, and say, this time last year we were doing? Are you holding on to anything and everything that reminds you of your ex and the time you spent together?
After a breakup, it is normal to feel sad, or even depressed, at the loss of that relationship, especially a soulmate relationship. It is common to spend several weeks, even a few months in some cases, dwelling on your ex, mourning the loss of that soulmate or romantic partner. At what point do you stop dwelling on your ex? Constantly reliving your life with that romantic partner, long after it has ended, is not a healthy way to live and can actually create blockages to a new romantic partner, love interest or soulmate entering your life.
Dwelling on Your Ex or Past Relationship
If you are dwelling on your ex for an extended period of time, you are living in the past. Living in the past can contribute to depression because you feel that was the only time in your life when you were truly happy. Living in the past by dwelling on your ex, prevents you from finding happiness in the present. Hoping, dreaming and wishing that your ex will come back to you, and fantasizing how great the relationship could be, forces you to live in a future that may, or may not, exist. This will create perpetual anxiety and worry because you hope your ex will be there, but since you don’t know for certain, you live in anxiety and fear. One of the spiritual challenges of our lifetimes is to live in the now, and be fully present in our lives to do what we have to do. You only have so much energy, or life force, and focusing on the past and what should have, could have, would have been, if only….. robs you of the life force you have for the present. The same is true with living in a fantasy world, where you live together happily ever after, if he would only come back to you.
Dwelling on your ex can potentially sabotage any future relationship you might have. You have spent so much time dwelling on your ex and how it was in the beginning of the relationship that you have maximized his good points while minimizing the bad ones. By doing this you set a very high standard any potential romantic interests, or soulmates, will have a hard time reaching. These new guys wane in comparison to the virtues of your ex, because you have spent months, and sometimes years, idealizing him. Even though you are not romantically connected to your ex, your energy appears that you are in a relationship with him. When guys meet you they may not think you are available. The may believe your are taken, or in another relationship, because in a way your are. You are in a relationship with someone who is no longer there. You might meet a potential soulmate partner, or your twin flame, and totally miss it because you are still attached to the energy of your past relationship. You may miss opportunities for love because you don’t want to go out and meet someone new. You would rather stay home, eat bon-bons, watch Titanic, flipping through photos albums of your ex, while you go through his Facebook and Twitter profiles to see his latest friend adds.
All of this being said, there are times when you have fully detached from a soulmate, or romantic relationship, and are suddenly flooded with thoughts and memories of that person. This is very different from dwelling. You have severed ties with your ex and have moved on with your life. Quite possibly you are already in another romantic relationship. You might even be married. You may be having thoughts, memories or even dreams of that soulmate because they are getting ready to make another appearance in your life. This also indicates that he, more than likely, is thinking and even dreaming of you. It is also an indication that he is probably considering communicating with you. But this is very different that dwelling. Dwelling on your ex keeps the energy stuck. It perpetuates stagnation in your life.
Are you current dwelling on your ex, soulmate or past romantic relationship? Do you relive that relationship over and over in your head because it was the only time in your life you felt loved and happy? Do you believe no one will ever measure up to your romantic standards, because he would have to surpass those of the immortal ex? Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are here to help you cut through the clutter of your romantic past to help you prepare for a new love and new life. They are able to see deeply in your psyche to help you address what issues may be holding you back from releasing the past. During your psychic reading, if they see your ex returning, they will guide you to the steps you need to take to attain the desired outcome. Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are expert relationship, soulmate, twin flame psychics, as well as certified life coaches, who will help you restore balance in your life and yourself.
Can a Psychic Get Your Ex Back?
Can a Psychic Get Your Ex Back?
Can a psychic get your ex back? There are many people who might thing so but the real answer is, NO. A psychic can see if your ex will come back, but can not get him back for you. There are many online psychic and tarot reading sites who allow their psychics to sell all kinds of MoJo to people who are desperate for a reconciliation with their ex. These predators are preying on your emotional turmoil, who believe you will do anything to find out, can a psychic get your ex back? It is their hope, that in your desperation, you will do anything to get him to return.
Can a Psychic Get Your Ex Back?
Here are some ways you may be swindled out of your hard earned money, by gypsies, scammers and con-artists, masquerading as real psychics, who promise to reunite you with your boyfriend. First of all, they will not do the spell while on the phone with you. They will ask you to send them via Paypal or Western Union, the money they need to do the work. If someone you are speaking with gives you their private phone number and tells you to continue the conversation privately, there is a good chance they hear the emotional desperation in your voice, and hope they have found a victim.
- A phoney psychic can promise to get your ex back by selling you spells. These are reuniting spells, spells to get you back together, spells to bind him to you forever, spells to make him ugly to other women, spells to stop divorce and even spells to make his penis fall off unless he is with you. Many of these spells can cost hundreds, or even thousands, of dollars. The spells are in forms of candle burnings or making wax poppets of both yourself and your beloved. They might even ask you for photographs, nails or hair to make you think they are really doing this work. Rest assured, they are not!! You send your money to them and then they ask you to call them on the online service to check on the progress of the spell, which will probably take two weeks. The claim to use the long burning church altar candles that take weeks to burn, often telling you the candles cost $1,000 for both of them. Do they buy the candles or do the spell work? Probably not. But they keep you calling on the online psychic network once they have hooked you on their spellcasting service.
- A phoney psychic might say your relationship with your ex ended because you are surrounded by negativity or have a curse on you. To remove this curse or negativity they will need to do an aura cleansing. Think about it logically,which is difficult when you are emotionally overwrought, but almost everyone has negativity in their life at some point. It is not because someone cursed you or put a spell on you. You are surrounded by negativity because you have been depressed and sad since your ex ended your relationship. Duh. During your aura cleansing, she may keep you on the phone with her, for an hour, or longer. Aura cleansings can cost thousands of dollars when you get sucked in by a phoney psychic, especially because their rates for ‘special work’ has a higher per minute rate than their psychic reading rate. But all she is burning away is the money from your bank account. Cleansing your aura will do nothing to bring your ex back.
- A gypsy will try to sell you anointed candle meditations to get your ex back. These anointed candle meditations are often done with you on the phone. The scammer will light very expensive white candles. These are special candles that have been anointed with oil and holy water, one for you and one for you ex. Then they will begin their meditation to encourage your energies to come back together. The price per minute for candle meditations, is often much higher than the regular psychic reading rate. During the candle meditation you are instructed to close your eyes and be quiet because the psychic is going to meditate to get your ex back. During this time she will be quiet too, because she is supposedly meditating. She will just put the phone down, leaving you there with those precious minutes ticking away, while she goes into the bathroom to color her hair and paint her nails. She never lights any candles or does any meditation, but she sure as hell hopes you stay on the phone thinking her silence means she has gone off into the ether to get your ex back.
Unfortunately, once you have paid these charlatans, you will never get your money back. Chances are, you won’t get your ex back, either.
A reputable psychic will not try to sell you spells, aura cleansings or any other mumbo jumbo to try and see if your ex is returning. An honest, ethical psychic will be able to consult with you to see if, and when, you ex may be coming back into your life. Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are expert relationship and soulmate experts. If your ex is returning, they will not only be able to tell you, but give you the guidance you need to create stability in your relationship and give it a greater chance of success.
The Twin Flame Relationship of Psyche and Cupid
The Twin Flame Relationship of Psyche and Cupid
The love story of Psyche and Cupid (Eros in Greek mythology) is one of a beautiful twin flame relationship brought to us from Greek/Roman mythology. Psyche is the Greek word for butterfly, as well as soul, and as we examine the story of Psyche and Cupid, or Psyche and Eros as the case may be, we are touched by the tale of an eternal twin flame relationship. As the butterfly symbolizes transformation, as the caterpillar cocoons itself to become a butterfly, it also symbolizes the transformation we all must make as a result of having an eternal twin flame relationship in our lives. And Psyche symbolizes the eventual happiness and joy received as the reward for all the suffering endured on the road to that twin flame relationship.
Psyche, then, is the human soul, which is purified by sufferings and misfortunes, and is thus prepared for the enjoyment of true and pure happiness. (From Bulfinch’s Mythology: The Age of Fable, chapter XI)
Twin Flame Relationship, Psyche by John Waterhouse
Psyche, a mortal princess, was the youngest of three daughters, who was known for her beauty. She was so beautiful that people began to worship her, rather than worshiping Venus (Aphrodite in Greek mythology), the goddess of love and beauty. Venus was enraged that she had lost the admiration of her people for a mere mortal and many of her temples began to crumble because there was no money to repair or sustain them. She was also very jealous of Psyche’s beauty so she summoned her son, Cupid (Eros in Greek mythology) to put a spell on her so no man would ever marry her. When he sprinkled the potion on her, he was so startled by her beauty he pricked both of them with an arrow. Her older sisters were married, but there was still no suitor for Psyche, so her parents consulted an Oracle, to see if she would find a husband. Aphrodite wanted revenge and convinced the Oracle to tell them Psyche would marry an ugly, evil monster. Yikes! Lesson number 1: Never piss off a goddess!
Psyche resigned herself to her fate and would sit on top of the mountain every night and await her husband, who was so hideous that he would only come to her in total darkness so she could not see his face. One night, after being encouraged by her sisters, she decided to look at his face. That night when he came to her, she raised the lamp to his face, only to discover she was married to Cupid. Surprised, he ran to the window and flew away, and she fell to the ground unconscious. When she awakened she went to seek the help of Venus, who gave her three impossible challenges to complete. After completing the first two challenges, she was given the final challenge to descend to the Underworld and return with a box of beauty from Prosperine (Persephone in Greek mythology), the wife of Hades (Pluto in Greek mythology). Even though she was told by Prosperine to keep the box closed, she could not resist the temptation to look inside. It was filled with darkness and she fell into a deep slumber.
Twin Flame Relationship
Cupid had to take action and appealed to Jupiter (Zeus in Greek mythology) to grant immortality to Psyche. Jupiter was so moved by Cupid’s love for his wife, he gave her a glass of ambrosia, the drink of immortality. Cupid and Psyche were joined in eternal marriage, an eternal twin flame relationship, and continue to live happily ever after. The story of Cupid and Psyche is the basis for the fairytale, Beauty and the Beast.
As we review the story of Psyche and Cupid, we can see the reality of their twin flame relationship. Even though she believed him to be hideous, she still had unconditional love for him. They had to overcome obstacles to be together, and through it all their love for each other won. Psyche had many adversities and life lessons, even going up against a goddess! Cupid loved her so much he asked Jupiter to grant her immortality so they could live eternally in their twin flame relationship love.
Twin Flame Reationship, Cupid and Psyche
In reality, all twin flame relationships are eternal. When we are in a twin flame relationship, we have a sense of wholeness and completion, perhaps even more so than a soulmate relationship. But twin flame relationships are not easy. As Psyche and Cupid have shown us, they take work, overcoming challenges and facing obstacles. But at the end of the day, the happiness and contentment that comes from a twin flame relationship is worth the effort….because you too, will be together in eternal marriage.
Are you currently in a soulmate or twin flame relationship? Are there challenges in that relationship that you find difficult, perhaps impossible? Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are Soulmate Psychics, as well as twin flame relationship specialists. Getting a soulmate reading, or twin flame relationship psychic reading, from these known relationship experts will help you work through your love and relationship dilemmas. Sarah and Sophia are dedicated to helping you find your happiness so that you too can find eternal contentment in your soulmate or twin flame relationship.
Ten Ways to Attract Your Soulmate
Ten Ways to Attract Your Soulmate
There are many ways to attract your soulmate. For some of us, soulmates may enter our lives through a chance encounter, from just being in the right place at the right time. Others have yearned and searched for years for the elusive soulmate, but have yet to meet them. For you there are a certain steps you can take to make sure you are in the best possible place to attract your soulmate relationship into your life. Either way, soulmates come into our lives at the right time and usually through some act of divine providence. If you want to attract your soulmate into your life because he has not manifested yet, there are probably some things in your life you can, or “need” to do, to encourage that chance encounter to happen.
Ten Ways to Attract Your Soulmate
- Staying stuck in the wrong relationship will not help you attract your soulmate. If you are too focused on a relationship that is not working, for whatever reason, it will not support you in attracting your soulmate. If you have been in a romantic relationship for years, with no sign of commitment in sight, you are probably in the wrong relationship. Focusing all your time, effort and attention on something, and someone, that is going nowhere will not give you the space to attract your soulmate into your life.
- You can not attract your soulmate by trying to turn your current romantic partner into your soulmate. Either they are or they aren’t. Hoping they are, wishing they are and waiting for them to be, will only lead to frustration. Many times we can miss a true soulmate relationship entering our lives because we are obsessed with a current romantic partner. We fantasize they are “the One” and believe that if we just hang in there, they will care for us the way we care for them. You can’t love someone enough for both of you. Either they are willing to accept the soulmate role, or they are not. You can’t force someone to be your soulmate just by hoping and wishing it. This can keep you stuck and prevent your true desire, which is to attract your soulmate.
- To attract your soulmate you have to be open to new ideas, places, people and activities. You will not attract your soulmate while sitting at home on the couch eating bon-bons, watching reruns on the Lifetime Movie Network. Getting out and putting yourself out there is a great way to attract your soulmate. Engage in activities you enjoy. If you like sailing, take a sailing class. Soulmates have similar interests and hobbies. So do the things you like to do and get out and about.
- Focus on the positive to attract your soulmate. Positive people attract positive things. If you are a “Negative Nellie”, do you really think someone will want to be with you? Thoughts and attitude are powerful things. When you are constantly focused on what you do not have, you will attract more of the same. If you say to yourself, “I will never attract my true love”, that is what the Universe hears. You will not attract your soulmate because all the people upstairs hear is “I will never attract true love”. By your own words, and thoughts, you make it so. When you focus on positive things, you will bring positive things into your life. See yourself happy and fulfilled, in a loving relationship and know it will be so.
- You may not believe that making time for yourself is one of the ways to attract your soulmate, but it is. It is not really about being along, but taking the time to honor yourself, both externally and internally. This includes taking care of yourself through a good diet and exercise but also focusing on you inner self as well. A spiritual practice is not required to attract your soulmate, but meditation has been proven for ages to help you stay centered, focused and calm. Taking classes and courses to improve yourself, your image as well as your own self esteem can do wonders to help you attract your soulmate.
- To attract your soulmate, you should be yourself. Sometimes when you meet someone you are interested in, your desire to merge with that other person can be so great, you lose track of who you are. You can morph into something other than your true, authentic self, if you desire to impress someone to keep them in your life. This will cause you to attract someone who is not your soulmate because you are not being true to yourself. A soulmate relationship is one forged of the soul level connection, so don’t be afraid to be who you are. This is who your soulmate will be attracted to.
- You can attract your soulamte by surrounding yourself with people who love you. When you are feeling loved, you project joy. When you are feeling loved, you love back. When you are living in a place of love, rather than a place of fear, you create the space to attract your soulmate. When you feel loved, you are happy and positive. Your energy patterns are higher when you share love, than when you feel disempowered and depressed. Raising your energy, raises your vibration, which will help you attract your soulmate.
- To attract your soulmate, you should have found closure from your past relationships. While you can find your soulmate when you are in a relationship with someone else, or healing from a broken relationship, that is not generally the rule of thumb. When you still hold onto junk from your past relationships, whether it be fear, abandonment issues, insecurity or whatever, you are coming at that soulmate relationship from a powerless place. Soulmate relationships are not always easy, and you will need to be in your best form, to attract your soulmate partner. Do some healing work to release any past relationship traumas. Bringing baggage from the past into the relationship into a soulmate relationship will not allow it to begin from a solid foundation. It will be shaky because you are shaky. Do the healing work you need to do before you attract your soulmate partner.
- Being centered and grounded can help you attract your soulmate. One of the best ways to feel grounded is to surround yourself with nature. Taking walks in the park, on the beach or in the woods are a great way to not only ground yourself but connect to the Divine. When we breathe in fresh air we are able to center ourselves. When we connect to our natural environment either through walking, hiking or gardening, we connect to the earth. The sights, sounds and scents of nature can fill us with a sense of peace. When we are in that peaceful place, we have a better chance to attract our soulmate.
- To attract your soulmate, do something you love. What do you love? What is your passion? If you love visiting museums, go to one. Do you love traveling? Plan a vacation to your favorite destination! Have you always wanted to to go on a cruise but have never booked one? Grab a friend and head out to sea. If you don’t have a friend, go by yourself! If you love <insert your hobby> but your horrendous work schedule has circumvented any plans you made, give yourself a break and go! Whatever your passion is, embrace it. When you do what you love, and you love what you are doing, your energy is in a positive, brighter place. This shift gives you greater opportunity to attract your soulmate. Besides, you just might meet with you are vacationing, hiking, biking, skiing, or visiting that museum.
We are sure there are probably many more ways that you can attract your soulmate and Sarah and Sophia are here to give you a personalized plan if you need one.
Greatest Soulmate Songs
Greatest Soulmate Songs
Tonight we were thinking what were the greatest soulmates songs of all time. There are probably thousands of song written about soulmates and soulmate love, although they don’t use the word soulmate in the lyrics. We have listed some of our favorite love (and soulmate) songs here. What are some of yours?
Soulmate Songs
Waiting for a Girl Like You ~~~ Foreigner
Truly, Madly, Deeply ~~~ Savage Garden
We Belong ~~~ Pat Benatar
If ~~~~ Bread
In Your Eyes ~~~ Peter Gabriel
Unchained Melody ~~~ The Righteous Brothers
Let It Be Me ~~~ Everly Brothers
She ~~~ Elvis Costello
Love Will Keep Us Alive ~~~ The Eagles
Soul of My Soul ~~~ Michael Bolton
Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me ~~~ Gladys Knight and the Pips
Everything I do, I do it for YOU ~~~~ Bryan Adamms
Time in a Bottle ~~~ Jim Croce
The Air That I Breathe ~~~ The Hollies
You Are So Beautiful ~~~ Joe Cocker
Woman ~~~ John Lennon
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