Your soulmate isn’t always your type. You may prefer, for example, brunettes with an athletic build and have always found yourself drawn to people of that type. It makes sense why many people assume their soulmate will be the type of person they have always found attractive. Many people discover, to their total shock and surprise, their soulmate isn’t their type at all!!!
Your soulmate can look entirely different from everyone you have ever dated or had a crush on before. Not just in looks, but in personality as well. So many clients tell us that if it wasn’t for the instant connection they would never have imagined themselves with the person who is now their soulmate. For most of their lives, they imagined, or fantasized, what their soulmate would look like and be like, but got it all wrong. In truth, you can’t pick or choose a soulmate.
They don’t mind, of course. Their soulmate suits them perfectly. Sometimes what we think we want, or what kind of person would make a good partner for us is incorrect. Perhaps that is why all the relationships people have had previously with a certain “type” have all failed. It could also be the people we used to attract, and were attracted to, were the wrong person for us is because we were not as far along on our journey as we were supposed to be.
Try not to lock yourself into an idea of what your soulmate is going to look like, sound like, or act like. You may want to try the excercise outlined in How to Manifest Your Soulmate. If you are going to try the leave yourself open to your soulmate reunion and you just may be surprised who shows up! Keep in mind you may not be your soulmate’s type either. They may have found themselves pursuing relationships in the past with women or men who have been the polar opposite of you. Actually, the fact that your soulmate is ‘not your type’ is a sure sign they are.
Other people discover their soulmate is exactly the type of person they have been attracted to or always wanted to find. They may have even had dreams of their soulmate which revealed to them what their soulmate will look like. These dreams are not always accurate though. Sometimes their soulmate looks nothing like the person they had been dreaming about. The connection and emotions they felt in their dream is the same, but usually the physical appearance is not.
It doesn’t really make a difference if your soulmate winds up being your type or not. You will find your attraction to them stronger than you have ever felt with anyone before. Your emotions will go to places (both good and bad) they have never gone before. Your soulmate always winds up being the right type for you in more ways than you can imagine. After all, it’s really about the soul connection anyway. 😉