How to Manifest your Soulmate

Can you manifest your soulmate? The short answer is YES you can. But the longer answer is, you’re going to have to do some work to make that happen. You can’t manifest your soulmate by lighting a candle, spinning around three times while focusing on some dream guy. And you won’t manifest them by trying to draw someone to you.


But you can manifest your soulmate by showing the Universe what you want in your life. And that you’re willing to go through the process to create that. So this exercise is not singularly focused to manifest your soulmate. But how to bring what you desire or need into your life. For purposes of this article we will focus on soulmates.

Many people have limiting beliefs when it comes to manifesting their desire. Because they do it from a negative place. They focus on the negative aspects of their relationship. Whether it’s with a soulmate or not. Limiting thoughts such as “He will never leave her” and “I worry he will never get back with me” or “I just know this relationship will fail” will deliver just that.

Your emotions are attached to your thoughts. And when thoughts and emotion work together they’re very powerful. So from this space you create the very things you don’t want. Because your emotions mix with your thoughts to manifest these things for you. So the first step is to clear out negative talk and limiting belief structures.


You need to be very careful if you decide to do the work to manifest your soulmate. And that’s because karmic law is in effect. So you can’t attempt to willfully bend the path of another person. This is like trying to override their free will. When we talk about how to manifest your soulmate, we don’t mean you can manifest the relationship with someone who broke up with you last month. Even though you still love them. Manifesting relationships, or soulmates, shouldn’t be done with someone you specifically name. It just won’t work!

So we’re really talking about creating the space for a soulmate to enter your life. And we don’t mean making room for their in the garage or closet. We’re talking about energetic space. Usually this works best by listing key qualities and characteristics you want for you soulmate. And you should include everything! All of it! No matter how silly it may seem.

How to Manifest your Soulmate
How to Manifest your Soulmate

For example, you can say you want a good communicator. Or someone ready for a serious relationship. And who is willing to express his feelings. Maybe you want someone well read. Although someone who can actually read will be good too. And they should be open to new ideas. Of course you want someone you find physically attractive. The most important component is the kind of person they are and how they’ll treat you. This should be your top priority!


Now that your list is ready, you can start visualizing. Imagination is the key to visualization! Try seeing yourself in a happy, committed relationship with the qualities on your list. Try holding the image in your mind’s eye for about two minutes. Or longer if you can. Try not to wonder off and think about ordering a pepperoni pizza. This process puts out into the Universe exactly what you want. Again it’s very important not to attach someone’s name or face to this exercise. But be completely open to the romantic partner you desire in your life.

While visualizing could yourself on dates, taking trips or planning your wedding? Remember emotion has to be part of this as well. So, how does it make you feel? Does it make you feel happy? Does it make you feel love? Love is a very strong emotion. And when we throw our own emotions into something, it’s super charged.



Once the visualization is done, try to remain positive for as long as you can. When trying to manifest your soulmate, please understand it could take some time for them to come into your life. But remaining positive about your visualization is important. Try not to allow negative thoughts to come in and start to bring you down. Let the Universe do what it does best. Let them bring into your life everything you want or need.

If you start wondering how this can work, you’re throwing out doubt and slowing things down. Your own doubts can block it from happening. Try to stay in a positive state of mind. Because by so doing you’re taking an active role in the co-creation process with the Divine. When you feel doubtful, impatient or have any other negative emotion, you can block things from manifesting. Thoughts are very powerful things. Especially when attached to your emotions!


And finally, the most important step is to let go. When we let something go, we’re showing we have faith they’ll bring what we need at the right time. And for the right reasons. If we surrender we’re not battling to do it ourselves. Besides the Universe doesn’t really want or need our help anyway. By letting go we’re releasing it and accepting in faith our soulmate will manifest in our lives.

As we release something we really should stop focusing on it. By keeping our focus on it, we’re showing we are in a place of lack. We show we’re living without that relationship, or soulmate. So let go and have faith that it will be, when the time right.

Let’s say you ask someone to do something for you. Surely you realize if you keep asking several times a day, day after day, week after week, you’d become annoying. So eventually that someone wouldn’t want to do anything for you. So let’s not annoy the peeps upstairs, ok? It’s like a kid on a car trip who constantly asks “are we there yet?” It doesn’t  make you drive faster or get there sooner. It just makes you want to throw the kid in the trunk. 🙂


There’s also responsibility on your part as well. This is where your role in manifesting your soulmate comes into effect. If you’re someone who stays home all the time, who works from home, who doesn’t go out and socialize with friends, have all your groceries delivered and basically never leave your house, chances of meeting someone who fits your definition of soulmate might be limited. Unless, of course, it’s the pizza delivery dude.

There’s a very slim chance your soulmate will come knocking on your front door. So you might have to break out of your comfort zone and go out once in a while. Go to a place where you might meet the one you’re trying to manifest. And this doesn’t mean stalking your ex at his weekly baseball game. If you want someone who’s well read, go to the bookstore. If you want someone who enjoys art, peruse your local art museum or gallery. We’re not suggesting you do this to make you uncomfortable. But this action shows the Universe that you’re serious about what you want.

Once again we have to be very clear here at the risk of repeating ourselves. But of course, we’re going to repeat ourselves. Trying to draw a specific person by name into your life, or back into your life, is a karmic NO-NO. Using this exercise to draw someone to you is an attempt at bending their free will. Do you want someone to do that to you? You will end up very frustrated anyway. Because it’s a violation of karmic law to manipulate another’s energy. We’re not the karma police, but we have warned you. Again!.

We are all-powerful beings. We’re all divine. And we all have the power within us through faith, intent, visualization and focus to create things in life that are most precious to us. We have the ability to co-create the life and love we want, with the Universe. So just do it. And remember to have fun and harm none!


4 thoughts on “How to Manifest your Soulmate”

  1. Really well written and I particularly loved how you articulated that if we don’t let go of the desired outcome, then we are affirming a lack. Trust is incredibly important, which is why I tend to believe that too much ‘seeking’ only affirms separation from what is being sought. Every time I have met a soulmate it has been unexpected…everybody says that but it is true! And I’m grateful for the lessons each one of my soul family has gifted me so far to allow a suitable life partner and divine relationship to manifest in alignment with divine timing. Love to you 🙂


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