How to Manifest your Soulmate

If you are single, or in an unhappy relationship, you may be wondering if it is possible to manifest your soulmate. The short answer to that is YES you can, but the longer answer is, you are going to have to do some work to make that happen. You can’t manifest your soulmate by lighting a candle, spinning around three times while focusing on some dream guy. You can manifest your soulmate however by showing the Universe what you want in your life and that you are willing to go through the process to create that. Now this exercise is not singularly focused to manifest your soulmate, but really to bring what you desire or need into your life. For this article however, we are focused on how to manifest your soulmate.

Many people have limiting beliefs when it comes to manifesting what they desire because they seem to do it from a negative place. They seem to focus on the negative aspects of their relationship, whether it is with a soulmate or not. Limiting thoughts such as “He will never leave her” and “I am so scared he will never get back with me” or “I just know this relationship is doomed to fail” will actually get you just that. Your emotions are attached to your thoughts and when thought and emotion work together they are very powerful. And you have just created the very things you did not want because your emotions mixed with your thoughts manifested those things for you. So the first step is that you have to clear out that negative talk and limiting belief structures.

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How to Manifest Your Soulmate

We have to be very careful if you decide to do the work to manifest your soulmate because there is a karmic law in effect that you can not attempt to willfully bend the path of another person. This could be perceived as trying to override their free will. When we talk about how to manifest your soulmate, or the relationship you desire, we do not mean you can manifest the relationship with the guy who broke up with you last month…even though you may very well still love him. Manifesting relationships, or manifesting your soulmate, should not be used to bring someone who you specifically name into your life or back into your life. So forget trying to manifest Brad Pitt, it just won’t work!

When we talk about how to manifest your soulmate we are really talking about creating the space for your soulmate to enter your life. And we don’t mean making room for his or her stuff in the garage or closet, we are talking about the energetic space. Usually this works best by listing, on a sheet of paper with a pen, the key qualities and characteristics you want for you soulmate, or romantic partner. And you should include everything, all of it , no matter how silly it may seem. For example you can say you want a good communicator, someone ready for a serious relationship, willing to express his feelings, someone well read, actually someone who can read would be good too and open to new ideas. And of course you want someone you find physically attractive. The most important component of this is the kind of man he is and how he will treat you. This should be your top priority.

Now that you have listed the type of guy you want, you can start visualizing it. Imagination is the key to visualization! So using your imagination see yourself in a happy, committed relationship with the qualities of the soulmate you listed. Try to hold the image in your mind’s eye for about two minutes, or longer if you can without wondering off and thinking about ordering a pepperoni pizza. This process puts out into the Universe exactly what you want. Again it is very important not to attach someone’s name or face to this exercise but be completely open to the romantic partner you desire in your life.

During the visualization you could see yourselves on dates, taking trips, planning your wedding. But remember that emotion has to be part of this as well. How does it make you feel? Does it make you feel happy? Does it make you feel love? Love is a very strong emotion and when we throw our own emotions into something, especially someone we really want to manifest, it is super charged. THIS IS WHY SPELLS DONE BY OTHERS ARE USELESS. Once the visualization is done, you should try to remain positive for as long as you can. When you try to manifest your soulmate, please understand this could be quite some time for that person to enter into your life, but remaining positive about your visualization is important. Try not to allow negative thoughts to come in and start to bring you down. Let the Universe do what it does best.. which is bring into your life everything you want to have. If you start wondering how this can possibly happen to you, you are throwing doubt out there and slowing things down. Your own doubts could even block them from entering your life. Try to stay in the positive state of mind, and by so doing your taking an active role in the co-creation process with the Divine. When you feel doubtful, anxious or impatient or have any other negative emotion, you can block yourself from achieving what you desire. Thought are very powerful things…especially when attached to your emotion!

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How to Manifest your Soulmate

And finally, the most important thing to do, once you have completed this exercise, is to let go. When we let something go, we are showing the Divine that we have faith that they will bring what we need into our lives at the right time and for the right reasons. When we let it go we are not longer striving to do it ourselves, because the Universe people don’t really want or need our help anyway. When we let it go we are releasing it and accepting in faith that our soulmate will manifest in our lives. When we release something we really should STOP focusing on it. When we keep focusing on it, we are showing that we are living without that relationship, or without our soulmate, in our lives and that we are ok with that because we are showing our ‘lack’ to the peeps upstairs. When we let go and let God we are showing we have faith that it will be, when the time right.

Let’s say you asked us to do something for you. You do realize that is you keep asking us, several times a day, day after day, week after week, that you would become annoying and we would not want to do anything for you? So let’s not annoy the people upstairs, ok? As, and then shut up for a while. It’s like a kid on a car trip who constantly asks “are we there yet?” It doesn’t  make you drive faster or get there sooner, it just makes you want to throw the kid in the trunk. 🙂

There is also some responsiblity now on your part as well, where you role to manifest your soulmate comes into effect. If you are someone who stays home all the time, who perhaps works from home, you don’t go out and socialize with friends very much, you have all your groceries delivered and basically never leave your house, chances of meeting someone who fits your definition of soulmate might be limited, unless it is the pizza delivery dude.  There is a very slim chance that your soulmate will come knocking on your front door so you might have to break out of your comfort zone and go out once in a while. Got to a place where you might meet the one you are trying to manifest, and this does not mean stalking your ex at his weekly baseball game. If you want someone who is well read, go to the bookstore. If you want someone who enjoys art, peruse your local art museum or gallery. We are not suggesting you do this to make you uncomfortable but this action shows the Universe that you are serious about what you want.

Once again we have to be very clear here at the risk of repeating ourselves, we are of course, going to repeat ourselves. Trying do manifest your soulmate to draw a specific person by name into your life, or back into your life, is a karmic NO-NO. Doing this focusing exercise and trying to draw someone to you is an attempt at bending their free will. Do you want someone to do that to you? If you try this, you will end up very frustrated anyway because it is a violation of karmic law to manipulate another’s energy. We are not the karma police, but we have warned you…again!.

We are all-powerful beings. We are all divine, we all the power with us through faith, intent, visualization and focus to create the thing in life that are most precious to us… yes even to manifest your soulmate! We have the ability to co-create the life and love we want, with the Universe, so just do it. And remember to have fun and harm none!



  1. This made a lot of sense thanks so much!

  2. Really well written and I particularly loved how you articulated that if we don’t let go of the desired outcome, then we are affirming a lack. Trust is incredibly important, which is why I tend to believe that too much ‘seeking’ only affirms separation from what is being sought. Every time I have met a soulmate it has been unexpected…everybody says that but it is true! And I’m grateful for the lessons each one of my soul family has gifted me so far to allow a suitable life partner and divine relationship to manifest in alignment with divine timing. Love to you 🙂

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