So many people are looking for a soulmate connection. And many actually believe they’re in a soulmate relationship. This is all well and good. But what if the romantic partner does not feel the same way? Believe it or not, this happens more often than you might realize.
BOTH MUST FEEL THE SOULMATE CONNECTION
A connection doesn’t really work unless it is honored by both parties. Someone who’s in a connection that’s only one-sided feels like they’re dangling with nothing to ‘plug into’. And this is true. Those of you who’ve had this experience know how it feels. In a true soulmate connection, both parties at some point acknowledge it to one another. It may be in the beginning of the relationship or something that develops further along. But we must acknowledge that not every person we feel connected to, even a soulmate, will feel one to us.
The Universe allows these unions to happen. They cause the paths to cross. But it’s ultimately up to each person to do something with it. If one isn’t willing to accept it, there is not much you can do. No one can force it to work. No matter how much you try to will it into being. Unfortunately, this is how the energy works.
Here are some reasons your soulmate won’t honor your connection:
- They don’t believe they’re your soulmate. Just because you believe it doesn’t guarantee they do. Nor does it mean the two of you actually are soulmates.
- The person you believe you have a connection with may be aware of it. But they’re not ready emotionally, spiritually or physically to take on the responsibility for such a deep connection. It may be overwhelming. Or they may fear the loss of control over their emotions by allowing someone to connect to them so intimately (and we don’t mean sexual).
- They’ve had a soulmate connection before. But were emotionally damaged by it. So now have walls up because they don’t want to go through that kind of emotional upheaval again at this moment in their lives.
- They have a soul connection to someone else, even though you think they’re your soulmate. We have seen this happen on several occasions, where after a soulmate break-up, one is waiting for the other to return. Meanwhile, the other party has moved on and formed a soulmate connection with a new soulmate partner.
Being in a one-sided soulmate connection is a very difficult place to be. The union must be a two-way street or the relationship will never work.
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