Soulmate status can often get stuck. Like every relationship, one between soulmates must also evolve and grow. If they don’t they get stagnant and will not move forward together in union.
Just being soulmates doesn’t guarantee you’ll have a picture perfect relationship and skip off into the sunshine together and live happily ever after.
When we think of relationship status we think of something like single, married, living together, separated, domestic partnership or divorced. Soulmates will have this same status of course. But they also have unique statuses that you only find in a soulmate relationship.
SOULMATE STATUS ADDRESSES SOULMATE CHALLENGES
For instance, invariably there comes a time where a soulmate denies the connection. This is the status of soulmate denial. There is also a time in a soulmate journey were the emotions feel too intense for them. Times like this can lead to the status of soulmate separation. During each of those status levels the couple must work first on themselves.
First, they must both accept the spiritual connection before they can reach another level. Only when they surrender themselves to the mutual connection can they really get a handle on how to deal with it. Then they can continue the work they must do on themselves. And that’s to get rid of whatever issues they’re having within the depth of their emotions.
REACHING THE GOAL
If they can do this successfully they will then reach soulmate reunion. Here they must ensure they don’t go backwards in their status, but keep moving forward. Soulmate relationships are often considered the most challenging relationships there are.
Some people use the label twin flames for these tumultuous relationships. And they believe they go through the same obstacles and issues we refer to here. Whatever label you want to use is up to you. But we believe twin flames are the final status and destiny of a spiritual union. Once soulmates can achieve true harmony, and put all their lessons behind them, they reach the new status of twin flames.
Some soulmates are lucky and are able to move through each status quickly and efficiently. But most soulmates find each status a nightmare to get through. They may end up in an on/off relationship and remain stuck in that status for a while.
This really creates a lot of trust issues and dysfunctional relationship dynamics. Many soulmates find it so difficult they often wish they never started this soulmate journey in the first place. The one thing we always remind them is every single soulmate relationship has the chance to achieve the ultimate status. So before you give up, try changing your tactics and give it another shot at success.