Has your soulmate relationship changed you? A soulmate relationship is going to bring change into your life. We’re not just talking about the kind of change where you will have a closely connected romantic partnership. But change that results from dealing with the your soulmate relationship. Hopefully you will change, grow and evolve in a positive way. And so will your soulmate. When both of your get it and are willing to make the changes for this relationship to truly work, there is balance. During your soulmate relationship you will experience many challenges in order to have a successful long-term relationship.
HAS YOUR SOULMATE RELATIONSHIP CHANGED YOU FOR THE BETTER?
During times of separation and even break-ups you task it to continue to grow and work on yourselves. But do you really? Or, do you spend your time crying and obsessing over the break-up? Sure we understand that the break-up is difficult, frustrating and overwhelming. But what are you doing for yourself during this time?
You have this soulmate relationship into your life because you need to reassess some aspects of how you deal with relationships. And before it can be successful, you will have to understand and accept the part of your personality, character or behavior that might need a little work. How do you handle a romantic partner pulling back or withdrawing? What do you do when there’s a lack of communication? How do you feel when he hangs out with the guys? Is this a dysfunctional relationship? And if so why aren’t you ending it instead of hoping they will change?
Relationships are usually the best in the beginning. And they bring out the best in us. The firsts weeks, or even months, where you’re getting know each other are fast paced and exciting. And they’re full of romantic interludes. But this period of time must naturally come to an end. It doesn’t indicate the relationship is failing.
One of you will naturally pull back to pay bills, go to work, cut the grass or get a hair cut. Life always comes along and throws a good dose of reality. If this creates a feeling of chaos or fear within you, it’s one of the life lessons that’s highlighted in your soulmate relationship. Do you usually freak-out, panic, or stalk them on social media? If so, your behavior might need a little modifying. This is the Universe calling out to you. They want you to make changes so you can have a mature romantic relationship.
WHAT DO YOU NEED TO FIX?
Some people need a lot of communication in a relationship. And it helps them feel secure about where the relationship is heading. If your soulmate is the strong, silent type, you may have to rely upon yourself for you own security. If they’re unable to communicate with you every few hours, you will have to find a way to deal with it.
You’re being called upon by the Universe to deal with this aspect of yourself that needs a little kick. It may be difficult to change your behavior. And your fears and insecurities may get the best of you. But by attracting this soulmate into your life you’ve told the Universe you’re ready to heal this aspect of yourself.
Sometimes even a soulmate relationship can become dysfunctional. So very sad but so very true. If you get stuck in one dysfunctional relationship after another what is your normal course of action? Do you hold on with a death grip, hoping and praying things will magically improve? Has your soulmate relationship brought a lot of drama into your life? Are you tired of the roller coaster ride, not knowing where it’s going or what he is going to do about it? What are you doing about it?
Perhaps the Universe is calling you to change your behavior if you’re in a relationship that’s only making you miserable. What’s the life lesson here for you? Can the relationship be fixed? It won’t magically fix itself. So you will have to take action to fix it, or end it.
These are just a few examples of how a soulmate relationship can change you for the better. Of course there are some examples of soulmate relationships that could possibly change you for the worse. And these you should get out of right away. How has your soulmate relationship changed you? Have you learned to detach? Do you focus on yourself? Have you learned patience or unconditional love? We welcome you to share your experiences of how your soulmate relationship changed you with us and our readers!