The responsibility that comes with soulmate connections is not talked about very often.
RESPONSIBILITY VERSUS ROMANCE
So much is written when it comes to the romance side of the connection between soulmates. When you first meet you usually feel butterflies in your stomach. Many soulmates report feeling weak in the knees when they look into each other’s eyes for the first time. They recall how easily the conversations flowed.
The romantic nature of many soulmate relationships is wonderful, but we must not forget these relationships can be challenging. Soulmates share a spiritual connection with a purpose greater than simply romance. With that greater purpose comes responsibilities that are extremely important.
When you’re given the gift of a spiritual connection with a soulmate, you’re responsible for accepting that gift. This means, first and foremost, you have to accept the connection exists. Of course you may question it at first, and wonder if it will last, and that is fine.
But at a certain point you have to accept it and have faith in it.
Your soulmate journey should be a spiritual journey as well. How can you have a spiritual journey without any faith? Your soulmate connection must go hand in hand with faith, not fear. So any actions or reactions on your part should not be fear driven.
If you don’t have faith in your connection how can you expect your soulmate to have faith in it? If neither of you have faith in your connection, don’t expect to have a smooth sailing relationship.
You may have a soulmate that is taking you for granted or mistreating you. Well that’s their responsibility. It’s not the universe fault, nor the fault of the connection itself. Your soulmate is the one making poor choices. So the blame is all theirs.
It isn’t a requirement for all soulmates to go through tons of drama and pain. Each soulmate couple’s choices are responsible for the relationship they create. The connection between the soulmates gives them an opportunity for growth and positive change.
Whether they take the opportunity is their responsibility.
The universe didn’t intend for your connection be used as a crutch. So don’t make the connection an excuse for misbehaving or allowing bad behavior. You’re supposed to use the strength of your connection
to support each other along your soulmate journey. It needs to be a team effort because one of you cannot keep the relationship on track alone.
You’re each responsible for learning your own lessons. You don’t always have to play the teacher to your soulmate. Let them learn their lessons themselves. Don’t enable them to avoid those lessons, because nothing good will come of that.
Even if your soulmate is sinking to lower levels, keep your standards higher. Don’t sink to lower level behavior with them. Soulmate relationships are supposed to bring out the best in you, so stay on your spiritual path. It does not matter if they have gotten off theirs temporarily, don’t follow them.
It’s not up to you to get them back on their spiritual path, it is their responsibility. They will get the karma they deserve for their bad choices, so you don’t want to join them.
The universe granted you this soulmate connection to teach you valuable lessons, allow you to grow and give you a chance to be rewarded. They brought you together to level up on your spiritual journey and let go of past mistakes and to heal. It’s the responsibility of both of you to take the opportunities given you and put in the time, effort, and work.
It will be well worth your hard work and effort if you do.