When your soulmate’s ex is causing interference in your relationship, you will probably become angry and insecure. You may wonder if your soulmate still has feelings for his ex that are unresolved. You may wonder what power your soulmate’s ex has over him. You cannot understand why your soulmate’s ex is causing so much interference.
Do they want your soulmate back in their life? Do they just want to break you up because they don’t want him to be happy? You may wonder why your soulmate is allowing their ex to get away their behavior. Why would they let their ex get away with this? Aren’t they afraid of losing you? Why would they risk losing their soulmate over an ex? All this can make you feel as though you are competing with another woman and it is making you miserable.
What can you do when your soulmate’s ex is causing interference? She may have already caused you and your soulmate more problems than you can bear. You need to work this out together as a couple, with your soulmate. You need to understand that the ex had their chance, and had their place. Had, as in past tense. Your soulmate needs to take your side and not feel they are the only one with a say as to how their ex is handled. You need to work together as a team.
Even though its only their ex who is interfering, they become a problem for both of you. In every other aspect of your relationship, you and your soulmate will deal with everything together, as a team. If they are the only one deciding how their ex is dealt with, a problem begins. They cannot understand your feelings, your insecurities, because they have their own reasons and excuses for how they handle their ex.
When your soulmate has children with an ex, they can use the children to cause interference. They can poison the children’s minds so that they hate you. They can manipulate the children to do things and say things to cause a lot of friction. You cannot expect your soulmate to have nothing to do with their children, but you can expect your soulmate to be the parent, and the adult, with their children.
Your soulmate cannot force their children to like you, but they can demand they behave politely around you and towards you. Your soulmate should not just think time will make this better, they need to make things better themselves. The ex may use the two of you as a babysitter all the time, which causes a lot of interference with your plans. Boundaries have to be drawn, and although your soulmate may need to be there in an emergency, they don’t have to be there all the time. The ex needs to find and pay for a babysitter once in a while, they cannot always use you. It just isn’t fair.
An ex can only keep causing interference in your soulmate relationship if you allow it. If you stand strong together, the ex’s interference will stop.