When your soulmate’s ex is causing interference in your relationship, you will probably become angry and insecure. You wonder if your soulmate still has feelings that are unresolved. But what power does this ex truly have? You can’t understand why your soulmate’s ex is causing so much interference.
WHY THE EX IS CAUSING INTERFERENCE
Does the ex want your soulmate back in their life? Do they just want to break you up because they don’t want you to be happy? Is your soulmate is allowing them to get away their behavior. Why would they let their ex get away with this? Aren’t they afraid of losing you? All this can make you feel like you’re competing with another woman and it is making you miserable.
What can you do when your soulmate’s ex is causing interference? They may have already caused your soulmate relationship more problems than you can bear. You need to work this out together as a couple. You need to understand that the ex had their chance. And had their place. Had, as in past tense. Your soulmate needs to take your side. They shouldn’t feel they’re the only one with a say in how this is handled. You need to work together as a team.
Even though its only their ex who’s interfering it becomes a problem for both of you. In every other aspect of your relationship, you and your soulmate will deal with everything together. As a team. If they’re the only one deciding how the ex is dealt with, a problem begins. They can’t understand your feelings or your insecurities. Because they have their own reasons and excuses for how they handle their ex.
When your soulmate has children with an ex, they can use the children to cause interference. They can poison the children’s minds so they hate you. They can manipulate the children to do and say things to cause a lot of friction. You can’t expect your soulmate to have nothing to do with their children. But you can expect your soulmate to be the parent, and the adult, with their children.
They can’t force their children to like you. But they can demand they behave politely around you and towards you. Your soulmate shouldn’t just think time will make this better. And they need to make things better themselves. The ex may use the two of you as a babysitter all the time. And this causes a lot of interference with your plans. Boundaries have to be drawn, and although your soulmate may need to be there in an emergency, they don’t have to be there all the time. The ex needs to find and pay for a babysitter once in a while, they cannot always use you. It just isn’t fair.
An ex can only keep causing interference in your soulmate relationship if you allow it. If you stand strong together, the ex’s interference will stop.