Soulmate relationships can have commitment issues just like every other relationship. People are under the misconception that soulmates come into each other’s lives when they are both ready. This is far from the truth. Just because you are ready for your soulmate does not mean that the universe will deliver them right away. Soulmates enter our lives using divine timing.
Often soulmates meet when neither are ready for a soulmate relationship, or any relationship for that matter. Soulmates may have commitment issues because one or both have commitment issues. They are bound by their connection, committing to a soulmate relationship scares one or both of them to death.
Commitment is obviously part of the lessons and growth that comes with soulmate relationships. Perhaps one or both of them have never experienced the kind of love that made them want to commit. It could be trust issues have caused them to run from commitment in the past.
The universe does indeed move in mysterious ways and has perhaps presented the right soulmate to get them to face their commitment issues head on. Soulmates may resist that change or growth, and try to see if they can have a non-committed relationship with their soulmate. If they are allowed to do that, they will. Staying the same is much easier than making such a huge lifestyle change.
So if you want to know how to get your soulmate to commit to you, the answer, more often than not, is to not allow them t have a non-committed relationship with you. A friends with benefits relationship will not work either, if you are hoping for a long-term commitment. It’s as simple as that. What you allow will continue. You may be afraid of losing them, and they are afraid of commitment. Those are two excuses, but those two excuses won’t create change and won’t make things better either. You were put in your soulmate’s life to help them deal with their commitment issues (or vice versa). You were NOT put in their life to enable them to stay the same.
If you think your soulmate will wait forever for you to commit to them, all we can say is don’t push your luck. When you least expect it, they will have had enough (even soulmates can have enough) and they will cut you off and cut you out. Of course you don’t need to rush into a committed relationship within days of meeting, although some soulmates do. Within a reasonable amount of time a commitment should be coming.
If your soulmate relationship lacks a commitment, it is time to make the commitment to yourself that you are not going to put up with it anymore.