Soulmate frustration is similar to any other frustrations that occur in a relationship. There is a difference though.
For average couples, frustration may come forth because the couple is not meant to be. Their relationship may have simply run its course.
It could be that they got together for the wrong reasons.
However, when it comes to soulmates, frustration shines a light on lessons that are not being learned. The longer the lesson is ignored, the more the frustration grows. Having a soulmate can often be harder than one would think.
Spiritual relationships not all sunshine, roses and romance. These partnerships were created so each person has things they must learn, discover, and change about themselves. In doing so, they will help create a happy, healthy, strong relationship. If they don’t, it will become a dysfunctional disaster.
SOULMATE FRUSTRATION CAN CAUSE HEARTACHE
One of the hardest things to go through is dealing with a soulmate who sabotages your relationship. You cannot for the life of you understand why on earth they would do this. Aren’t they afraid of losing you? Why on earth would they risk this one of a kind relationship?
You thought once you found your soulmate, things would be easy this time. Instead, you feel as though you are dealing with Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. You know they love you and that the connection between you is real. Yet they refuse to get their act together. Over and over again they do and say things that cause unnecessary drama between the two of you. Is there a reason why they do this? Yes, there is.
TOP REASONS SOULMATES FRUSTRATE YOU
When a soulmate takes too long to get out of a previous relationship it causes a lot of frustration. No one wants to wait for someone endlessly, regardless of the excuse. The reason they do this is simply fear of change.
They know they have to let go of bad relationship habits. They’re afraid to fail with you. Also, you may be enabling them. Why end the other relationship if they don’t have to?
When a soulmate resorts to constantly ending the relationship either out of the blue, or whenever conflict arises, it creates an unstable foundation in the relationship. They do this to keep the relationship at a level they’re comfortable with. They freak out once they know the relationship is progressing, so they sabotage it,. This way your relationship stays at the same place.
When a soulmate refuses to acknowledge the connection, or even speak to their partner, the heartache can seem endless. You are connected to a person that won’t even speak to you, or acknowledge what you both feel. This can be excruciating.
If a soulmate has inconsistent behavior, it can prove very frustrating. If the contact is random and they go days, weeks, or months without saying a word, it can drive their partner crazy. If they break plans, have temper tantrums, or suddenly say they are unsure of their feelings to cause drama, they’re sabotaging the relationship. Eventually they may sabotage it without even really wanting to.
This is also fear based.
The strong, intense connection to another human being is something not everyone is comfortable with. It comes out of nowhere and knocks them off their feet. So it’s up to them to take the time to embrace the connection instead of fighting it.
When your soulmate puts you at a low priority all the time, because they believe you will always forgive them, it can get very insulting and annoying. It makes you feel inferior, rather than special. You wonder what it is going to take for them to move you up on their priority ladder, especially since you have them so high up on yours.
The reason they do it is because you allow it. They are simply taking you for granted.
What kind of soulmate frustration are you dealing with? We would love to hear your experiences in our comments section to share with our readers who are experiencing soulmate frustration themselves.
Originally posted on 2017-02-01 @ 2:00 pm