Soulmate Frustration: Does Your Soulmate Frustrate You?

Soulmate frustration is similar to any other frustrations that occur in a relationship. There is a difference though.

For average couples, frustration may come forth because the couple is not meant to be. Their relationship may have simply run its course.

It could be that they got together for the wrong reasons.

However, when it comes to soulmates, frustration shines a light on lessons that are not being learned. The longer the lesson is ignored, the more the frustration grows. Having a soulmate can often be harder than one would think.

Spiritual relationships not all sunshine, roses and romance. These partnerships were created so each person has things they must learn, discover, and change about themselves. In doing so, they will help create a happy, healthy, strong relationship. If they don’t, it will become a dysfunctional disaster.


One of the hardest things to go through is dealing with a soulmate who sabotages your relationship. You cannot for the life of you understand why on earth they would do this. Aren’t they afraid of losing you? Why on earth would they risk this one of a kind relationship?

You thought once you found your soulmate, things would be easy this time. Instead, you feel as though you are dealing with Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. You know they love you and that the connection between you is real. Yet they refuse to get their act together. Over and over again they do and say things that cause unnecessary drama between the two of you. Is there a reason why they do this? Yes, there is.


When a soulmate takes too long to get out of a previous relationship it causes a lot of frustration. No one wants to wait for someone endlessly, regardless of the excuse. The reason they do this is simply fear of change.

They know they have to let go of bad relationship habits. They’re afraid to fail with you. Also, you may be enabling them. Why end the other relationship if they don’t have to?

When a soulmate resorts to constantly ending the relationship either out of the blue, or whenever conflict arises, it creates an unstable foundation in the relationship. They do this to keep the relationship at a level they’re comfortable with. They freak out once they know the relationship is progressing, so they sabotage it,. This way your relationship stays at the same place.

When a soulmate refuses to acknowledge the connection, or even speak to their partner, the heartache can seem endless. You are connected to a person that won’t even speak to you, or acknowledge what you both feel. This can be excruciating.

Soulmate Frustration: Does Your Soulmate Frustrate You?
Soulmate Frustration: Does Your Soulmate Frustrate You?

If a soulmate has inconsistent behavior, it can prove very frustrating. If the contact is random and they go days, weeks, or months without saying a word, it can drive their partner crazy. If they break plans, have temper tantrums, or suddenly say they are unsure of their feelings to cause drama, they’re sabotaging the relationship.¬†Eventually they may sabotage it without even really wanting to.

This is also fear based.

The strong, intense connection to another human being is something not everyone is comfortable with. It comes out of nowhere and knocks them off their feet. So it’s up to them to take the time to embrace the connection instead of fighting it.

When your soulmate puts you at a low priority all the time, because they believe you will always forgive them, it can get very insulting and annoying. It makes you feel inferior, rather than special. You wonder what it is going to take for them to move you up on their priority ladder, especially since you have them so high up on yours.

The reason they do it is because you allow it. They are simply taking you for granted.

What kind of soulmate frustration are you dealing with? We would love to hear your experiences in our comments section to share with our readers who are experiencing soulmate frustration themselves.

Originally posted on 2017-02-01 @ 2:00 pm

12 thoughts on “Soulmate Frustration: Does Your Soulmate Frustrate You?”

  1. It is so frustrating when you are waiting for your spiritual partner to learn their lessons. I don’t know how much longer I can hang in there and hold on.

  2. I know we are soul mates . We’ve been married for 11 together13 I. 64 he’s 55 he can’t stop gambling its getting worse. He’s work away from home sometimes months at a time .and I can’t do this anymore . He’s not a cheater but a gambler . I know he loves .e but how much because he now has to make a decision me or that. We know we are soul mates.

  3. I am dealing with several of the frustrations and I have had enough .
    Wise people have told me to wait for him,but not forever.

  4. hi im dealing with a person i met 10 years ago. his name is rob . we had a sexual attraction .bu years past and i dream about him. he knows my feelings casue he texted the other day and apologize for hurting me but he is w someone, and i dont know what to do..

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  5. I’m dealing with a soulmate who’s married and uses his sister as a way to communicate with me. The weirdest part is that the sister although acting as a go between will act indifferent on behalf of the brothers request. I’ve threatened to move to another state so many times and the sorry full text begin? Although the text are coming from the sister I no he’s behind the text. The thing is I love him and the sister! Obviously I don’t love the sister in the same manner as I love him but because she’s played such a huge part in having some sort of communication with himI feel kinda indebted to her and I’ve grown sister-in-law like feelings towards her. Also she’s been so kind too me that I just can’t seem to let her go as well. Uh this is so stressful at times not to mention he’s married and I have no idea on the state of his marriage. I no he is not in love with his wife but honestly I’m willing to sever ties so that he can manifest what ever it is he needs to do to find himself in this life. My only wish is that we can at least make peace with each other before our souls pass onto the next journey. I’ve gone through ever emotion possible for this particular person and I’m just ready to either fulfill what should be or move on for good!


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