Soulmate relationships come with a lot of soulmate confusion. At first, the connection alone brings a ton of confusion. People wonder why they are feeling such a strong tie to someone they just met. Then they wonder if the connection is all in their head. The confusion as to whether or not the connection is even real can make people question their own sanity. They wonder what this connection means, and why it is even happening.
So they do some research, the light bulb goes off and they begin to think it is because they met their soulmate. They are led to believe soulmate relationships are easy and run smoothly. But of course they start having problems in their soulmate relationship, as most soulmate relationships have issues. Now they wonder if they really are in a soulmate relationship or not, and find themselves very confused.
To cut through all the confusion, first and foremost, soulmate relationships do have problems, often many of them. That does not mean they cannot be great relationships. All it means is there are issues they have to work on in order to get their relationship on the right track. It can take a while to get there, but all soulmate relationships have the chance to work out beautifully, if both soulmates work on themselves.
Another major source of soulmate confusion is when people think the words soulmate and twinflame are interchangeable.There is a reason they are two different words, they are two different things and mean two separate types of relationships. Although very similar as far as a connection, depth and intensity of feelings, there is one huge difference. although not the only difference.
Twinflame relationships are easy relationships, but soulmates go through a period of difficulty until changes are made. So many people talk to us about their twinflame and all the problems they are having but if they understood the difference they would know the person they believe to be their twinflame is instead a soulmate. If you want to know more about the difference between soulmates and twinflames, please see our article Difference Between Soulmates and Twin Flames.
We also must cut through the confusion that one relationship, twinflame or soulmate, is better than the other. Although soulmate relationships do have their share of drama, it is the fault of the couple, not the universe. So it can be as drama-free or drama-ridden as you two make it. One connection is not better than the other, and if you are getting hung up on labels you are missing the point entirely because that is coming from ego not your soul.
There is also an area of soulmate confusion that makes one soulmate feel the other can do what they cannot do, such as stop thinking or having feelings for their soulmate. Soulmates have the same connection and same feelings for one another. Just like you can’t stop thinking about them they cannot stop thinking about you. They may be better at dealing with it or hiding it than you are, but they do not possess superpowers. There is a lot of soulmate confusion out there, and that is why we are constantly writing articles to help you get clarity and have the information you need when you connect with your soulmate.