Soulmate breakups are difficult to deal with and will not always lead to a reunion. You can get back together, but it really depends on what is written in your soulmate contract. There are no guarantees, expressed or implied from God, the Universe, the Angels, whomever … that a soulmate relationship is destined to be together for ever. Unfortunately, due to Hollywood, cheap romance novels and the New Age movement, there has been a definite overt romantic association on soulmates and soulmate relationships without a full comprehension of what they really are. Relationships are for a season, a reason or a lifetime, soulmate relationships included.
If you are contracted to be together for your lifetime, if this was something you and your soulmate agreed to in your soulmate agreement, you more than likely will be. So even after several soulmate breakups, you will still reunite to be together because that is part of your soulmate contract. But you could have also contracted to just be with your soulmate for an express reason, to learn a life lesson of great importance to you for future relationships that come into your life. Then again, you could have just made a contract with that soulmate to have them in your life for a season, a period of time, for a year or so and then move on. Either way, the soulmate relationship will be one of great joy, great passion, great experiences and then great life lessons as you each fulfill with that other soul the reasons you wrote in your life blueprints and soulmate contracts to meet, spend time together and evolve.
For example, I know a lady who met a soulmate while she was married to a somewhat abusive, emotionally distant man. The soulmate was also married at the time. Their relationship was so connected they woke each other up in the middle of the night thinking about each other even though they were miles apart from each other. They knew it was destiny, fate and karma that had brought them together because he had just move from halfway around the world to work on a project at her company she was also involved in. They spent a lot of time together and although neither had an affair before, they had one. The connection was incredible and they fell in love. It was six months of pure bliss.
And then it happened. He made a big mistake that cost him his job and was forced to move far away. They had to separate and it was very difficult for both of them. They devised a plan to allow them to be together, each deciding to leave their spouse. She went first and went through the process of telling her husband she was leaving. She moved out and got an apartment on her own. Her soulmate changed his mind and decided to stay with his wife and told her he could never ever speak with her again. Talk about devastation. It was hard on her for two years but she moved through it and today she looks back and realizes the purpose of the soulmate contract with this guy was to give her the strength she needed to move out of a miserable marriage. He did finally leave his wife but heard through the grapevine she was getting married to someone else, which was not true by the way, but that is the Universe intervening to support the soulmate contract agreement. He was in her life for a reason and he fulfilled it. Now he is married to someone else.
When you meet your soulmate, you really enjoy the bond, the connection, the closeness and the intimacy the two of you share. Life is great! You are happier than you have ever been in your life. You are soaring on the wings of love, literally, well at least you think you are. And then without fail something happens. After the initial period of perpetual togetherness, bliss, harmony and wonderful romantic sex-filled nights, BOOM!! It happens. There is a break, a break-up or one of you puts on the brakes in your soulmate relationship. Either you or your soulmate have hit that Soulmate Crisis Point where one of you has to leave the relationship for a period of time, or permanently, to focus on something or someone else. It happens. It is life. It is a soulmate relationship. And without fail, after watching these relationships for over 25-years, one of you, will have to break the soulmate bond.
When a soulmate leaves your life it can be very painful because you are so connected to them. But only through separation from your soulmate does the soul truly grow. Unfortunately we learn through pain. We never seem to learn valuable lessons when everything is going great in our lives, although I am sure there are some situations where this is so. Like a kid burning their hand on the stove to learn not to touch it, we will learn and grow spiritually through soulmate relationships when the soulmate leaves.
How do you navigate through the pain of the soulmate leaving? This is where you must learn to detach, let go and focus on yourself. We realize this is easier said than done, because it seems impossible to breathe when you no longer have that connection to the soulmate. We know and understand what you are going through. But get through it you must because that is the challenge and more than likely defined in your soulmate contract because it gives you the opportunity for the spiritual growth you need in your life. It is how you work through the soulmate separation anxiety that is true challenge and we agree it is very difficult.
You are probably filled with a great deal of despair, obsession, agony, countless hours of crying, talking endlessly with your friends to see if they think the soulmate is coming back into your life. You will probably also spend considerable time dwelling on them. More than likely your friends, because they care deeply for you and want you to be happy again, will tell you to let go and move on, that your soulmate is not coming back or getting back together with you. Remember when they do this it is because they truly have your best interest at heart. Your friends are connected to you and want the best for you.
If you really want to know what is going on with your soulmate relationship and whether or not your soulmate break-up is permanent, your best course of action is to have a private soulmate reading with a love psychic, relationship psychic, or soulmate psychic. During your soulmate reading, a soulmate psychic will be able to see if the split from your soulmate is forever. If so, they will need to give you guidance on how to move through this very difficult time in your life. Allowing yourself to dwell on the loss of your soulmate and spend months, and sometimes years, wondering and hoping if you will get back together, Sarah and Sophia, who are also Certified Life Coaches, will be able to help you move on, let go and work through the soulmate separation anxiety you are most certainly experiencing.
They will be able to see the details concerning your soulmate relationship. Soulmate relationships are very near and dear to your heart and when you are in one, and find you have reached the Soulmate Crisis Point, you will need someone to help you navigate through that crisis.
Soulmates split, there are soulmate breakups, they reunite and come back together at times, but not always. What is the outcome for you and your soulmate? Find out today so you can decide what course of action you need to take to get your life back on track while you wait for the return of you soulmate or make preparations to allow a new soulmate to enter your life. Either way, you will win, you may not see it now, but YOU WILL WIN.