Soulmate breakups are difficult to deal with and will not always lead to a reunion. You can get back together, of course. But it really depends on what’s in your soulmate contract. There are no guarantees from the Universe that a soulmate relationship is destined to be together for ever. Unfortunately, due to Hollywood and cheap romance novels, many people have an overly fantasized view of soulmates. Or of why they have them. All relationships are for a season, a reason or a lifetime, soulmate relationships included.
SEASON, REASON OR LIFETIME
Perhaps your contract says you’re to be together for your lifetime. If this was something you both agree to in your soulmate agreement, you will be. So even if you go through several breakups, you will still reunite. That’s part of your soulmate contract. But your soulmate contract could say you’re only with a for a reason. And that will be to learn a life lesson of great importance to you for future relationships. Then again, you could have a soulmate contract for a season, a period of time, then move on.
Either way, the soulmate relationship will be one of great joy, great passion and great experiences. And then there will be great life lessons as you each fulfill promises written in your life blueprints. Those are to meet, spend time together and evolve.
IT GOES SOMETHING LIKE THIS
For example, we know a lady who met a soulmate while she was married to a somewhat abusive, emotionally distant man. The soulmate was also married at the time. Their connection was so powerful they woke each other up in the middle of the night thinking about each other. Even though they were miles apart. They knew destiny, fate and karma brought them together. He recently moved from halfway around the world to work on a project at her company. They spent a lot of time together and although neither had an affair before, they had one. The connection was incredible and they fell in love. It was six months of pure bliss.
And then it happened. He made a big mistake that cost him his job and was forced to move far away. They had to separate and it was very difficult for both of them. They devised a plan to allow them to be together, each deciding to leave their spouse. She went first and went through the process of telling her husband she was leaving. She moved out and got an apartment on her own.
But then he changed his mind, deciding to stay with his wife. He told her could never ever speak with her again. Talk about devastation. It was hard on her for two years but she moved through it. And today she looks back and realizes the purpose of the soulmate contract with this guy was to give her strength to leave a miserable marriage. When he left his wife, eventually, he heard through the grapevine she was getting married to someone else. Which was not true by the way. But that is the Universe intervening to support the soulmate contract agreement. He was in her life for a reason and he completed it. Now he is married to someone else.
SOMETHING ALWAYS HAPPENS TO CAUSE A BREAK
When you meet your soulmate, you really enjoy the closeness and intimacy. You’re happier than you’ve ever been in your life. You are soaring on the wings of love, literally. Well at least you think you are. And then without fail something happens. After the initial period of perpetual togetherness and wonderful romantic sex-filled nights, BOOM!! It happens.
There is a break, a break-up or one of you puts on the brakes in your soulmate relationship. Congratulations you have reached the Soulmate Crisis Point. Here is where one of you has to leave the relationship for a period of time to focus on something or someone else. It happens. It is life. It’s a soulmate relationship.
When a soulmate leaves your life it will be painful. And you may feel like part of you is dying. But only during this separation phase does a soul truly grow. Unfortunately we learn through pain. We never seem to learn valuable lessons when everything is going great in our lives. Although I am sure there are some situations where this is so. Like a kid burning their hand on the stove to learn not to touch it, we will learn and grow spiritually through soulmate relationships when the soulmate leaves.
HOW TO COPE…
How do you navigate through the pain of the soulmate leaving? This is where you must learn to detach, let go and focus on yourself. We realize that’s easier said than done. Because it seems impossible to breathe when you no longer have a connection to a soulmate. We know and understand what you’re going through. But get through it you must. Because that’s the challenge here. And your soulmate contract says so because it gives you the opportunity for the spiritual growth you need in your life. It’s how you work through the soulmate separation anxiety that is true challenge. And we agree it’s very difficult.
You are probably filled with a great deal of despair, obsession, agony and countless hours of crying. There are endless conversations with your friends to see if they think your soulmate is coming back. You will probably also spend considerable time dwelling on them. Your friends, because they care deeply for you and want you to be happy again, will tell you to let go and move on. They probably tell you that your soulmate isn’t coming back. Remember when they do this it’s because they truly have your best interest at heart. Your friends are connected to you and want the best for you.
Soulmates split, there are soulmate breakups, they reunite and come back together at times, but not always. What is the outcome for you and your soulmate? Find out today so you can decide what course of action you need to take to get your life back on track while you wait for the return of you soulmate or make preparations to allow a new soulmate to enter your life. Either way, you will win, you may not see it now, but YOU WILL WIN.