How do you know you have met your soulmate? If you are really wondering and questioning whether or not you have met your romantic soulmate, especially if it is the person you are currently dating, chances are you have not. Out of all our years of experience with soulmates and soulmate readings, one thing stands firm… if you are in or have been in a romantic soulmate relationship, you will probably know it early on in the relationship. Actually you will probably know it at the point of meeting that soulmate because it will be an electrifying moment for both of you.
When soulmates meet on the earthly plane, it very often comes with a mystical, cosmic experience. There is an instant spark, a flare and immediate attraction between you. You each feel the intensity but probably in different ways. You may feel that they are the only person in the room while everyone else around you seems to melt away into a void because the energy in front of you is the only thing that matters at that time.
Some people may like to call this ‘love at first time’ but esoterically it is a much deeper experience. It is the soul recognition between you reaching their check-point and saying to each other “Oh there you are, I have been looking for you and glad you finally found your way into my life. Let’s get this show on the road!” It is a feeling of coming home, a feeling as if you know this person already or that you have met before. And you have, just not in this life time.
There is a recognition on the soul level. Although you won’t be fully aware at the time, this often indicates a shared past life, time together on the other side or the soulmate contract or soulmate agreement you made with each other. Your ego will not be aware of these things at the time, however, because all you know in that moment is the intense attraction you feel to this person.
More than likely you have shared many lifetimes together and there is a feeling of comfort and contentment in being in the presence of this energy that feels so familiar to you. And you can’t quite put your finger on it, but there is just something about them that resonates with your soul. Of course, at the initial meeting, you have no idea of the karmic life lessons or changes that are about to manifest in your life as a result of meeting this person who will become a challenging karmic relationship, but you will find out in time.
The beginning of a soulmate relationship can be a whole lotta fun! You have so much in common, not things like grandmothers first names, but commonalities that are much more unique. Whatever it is, it will be something, and if it is not readily apparent, as you get to know each other your similarities will reveal themselves. You have long talks and spend hours on the phone going over all the connected pieces between you, you spend a lot of time together, you think each others thoughts and complete each others sentences and truly believe you have reached a state of perpetual bliss as you turn all your focus upon the one you perceive is “The One”.
You have mind-blowing tantric sex and you just can’t get enough of each other. You talk about the future, make plans for a future and do this really too early on in the relationship, but throwing caution to wind is ok in your mind in this situation because fate has brought you together and you are destined to be united. As a matter of fact you might even neglect a lot of other responsibilities and people in your life because the only thing that matters to you is the soulmate relationship and the ‘connection’.
Now if it is not a romantic soulmate you are wondering about but a soulmate relationship with a friend, family member, co-worker or pet, those connections tend to develop over a longer period. When friends meet and form a strong bond it is usually a kindred spirit kind of connection because you share a lot of similarities in terms of background, belief structure, likes and dislikes and life in general. Over time though, as that friendship deepens and you become closer and more connected, it evolves into a soulmate friendship where you are able to feel each other and communicate telepathically. Friendship soulmate relationships are there you just may not realize it at immediate meeting.