Have you lost trust in your soulmate? Has your soulmate done or said things that have caused you to distrust them? Has your soulmate created so many issues that you are not sure you can believe a single word they say? Do you wish you could trust your soulmate but you can’t because of your past? It is hard for many people to trust anyone these days. It seems as though people’s integrity got lost somewhere along the way. It’s a real shame, but it has become easier to lie and break someone’s trust.
So what can you do if you no longer trust your soul mate? Is there a way to rebuild it again, or is it a losing battle?
When you trust someone, you believe their words and feel their actions will support them. You believe they will be faithful to you, truthful with you, keep their promises and keep your confidences. Basically you believe they will mean what they say, and say what they mean. When someone breaks a promise, the promise that they broke may not be such a big deal, but its a huge deal that they broke their promise.
Let’s say your soulmate promised you over and over they would take you to the movies this weekend. The weekend comes, and you truthfully don’t feel like going to the movies. Your soulmate comes to you and tells you they made other plans, and can’t/won’t take you to the movies. You didn’t really want to go, so you are not mad or disappointed about not going to the movies. But you are very upset and disappointed that they broke a promise.
So many people don’t realize the significance of breaking promises and not staying true to their word. They are actually shocked when people have lost faith in them. They didn’t realize their words are their currency and each time you lie or break a promise you diminish the value of your words and the level of trust that goes with it. Your soulmate needs to understand their words meant nothing. So for your soulmate to use words to rebuild your trust in them again is absolutely ridiculous. How could that possibly work? It can’t.
If your soulmate wants you reinstate the faith that was lost, it will have to come through their words and actions. It was their actions (in most cases) that destroyed your trust and only through their actions will the trust return. Make them aware of that. Words are not going to cut it, actions will.
Your soulmate also needs to understand, as do you, that trust cannot come back instantly just because you had a lovely conversation about it. Once it is lost it takes a long time to rebuild. You can’t bring it back in one conversation or in one week. Your soulmate has to accept that it could take months, or longer. They are going to have to do the work to restore your faith in them. Don’t let them make you feel guilty for not trusting them. Your soulmate proved to be untrustworthy which was not your fault. You wanted to trust them, they broke it and now they have to repair it. All you are required to do is give them the chance to rebuild the lost trust. If both parties are open to it, trust can be rebuilt in soulmate relationships.