Getting Off the Soulmate Merry-Go-Round

Once you get on the soulmate merry-go-round it can be tough to get off it.

At first you really enjoyed the ride. You and your soulmate were having such a wonderful time. But now that ride has taken a turn for the worse and is not as enjoyable.

You didn’t sign up for a ride that can literally spin you out of control. So how did you wind up on the soulmate merry-go-round?


When soulmates first meet the highs are unimaginable. You get swept away in the moment and in the emotion. It’s something so unique you can’t help but want to go with the flow. Emotions are everywhere and feelings are off the charts.

Because of the soulmate connection there is a sense of recognition. And you feel you’ve known this person far longer than you actually have. It seems to easy and feels so right.

These feelings are real between soulmates. But what’s also reality is that you don’t know your soulmate in some very important ways. Sure, you may know a lot of personal details. But you don’t know what your connection is meant to teach both of you. Those lessons will challenge your soulmate, your relationship and you. It’s all tied together.

Getting Off the Soulmate Merry-Go-Round
Getting Off the Soulmate Merry-Go-Round

These lessons start the soulmate merry-go-round.

You go round and round and round, just like on a real merry-go-round. But what’s more important is how you handle things while you’re spinning. It’s how both soulmates react and behave when their ride goes around and around. Because that’s what sets relationship patterns and boundaries going forward. It shapes the relationship itself and where it’s headed.

If you don’t handle your soulmate merry-go-round well, you can expect the ride to continue. Yes, exactly like the amusement park. And it’s the same thing with the soulmate roller coaster. Don’t expect it to stop on its own. One of you caused the spinning and it got out of control. It’s up to both of you to handle it properly so it doesn’t keep happening.


For instance, let’s say everything is going great in your relationship. You’re both happy, in love and planning for your future. Everything seems perfect. Then out of the blue your soulmate’s ex calls. You get nervous but your soulmate reassures you there’s nothing to worry about.

They already told you how horrible and toxic that relationship was. So you relax a little then learn the ex called again. Or you discover they’ve been talking here and there. Alarm bells start going off in your head. Here comes a soulmate merry-go-round spin cycle.

You can be firm and tell them their ex has no place in your relationship. They must cease conversation with them, or you can’t trust them to handle it. At this point you should already know they’re not handling it properly. If you don’t put your foot down, chances are you’re going to have to deal with their ex’s interference for a long time to come.

This will erode the trust in your relationship and cause insecurity and arguments. Or they could suddenly dump you and go back to their ex. So you really have no choice but to nip this in the bud. So do you? No, you don’t. You didn’t give them a strong enough ultimatum.

Since you didn’t nip it in the bud, your soulmate and their ex have taken control of the soulmate merry-go-round. The ride is going to become very unpleasant for you. Your soulmate’s lesson has come into play. They should have chosen to avoid their ex at all costs. Instead they opened the door to them. And of course, the ex will kick that door open.

If you don’t do what you should do, which is stand your ground and let them know this is unacceptable, you’re allowing a soulmate relationship that will now involve a third-party. Trust us, you do NOT want to do this.

Bring the ride to a screeching halt.

Get off the ride if you have to. Let your soulmate take the ride themselves. And wait for their ride without you to get so unpleasant they get off. Don’t take that ride with them. It will only prolong this soulmate merry-go-round ride from hell. That’s the last thing you want to do

Originally posted on 2017-10-07 @ 8:59 pm

4 thoughts on “Getting Off the Soulmate Merry-Go-Round”

  1. I have read so many articles from your websites. They have been a wealth of information, and easy to understand.


Leave a Comment

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.