Feeling your soulmate pull away is one of the worst feelings in the world. When you are connected to a soulmate, you can feel when they are pulling away. But before you go into panic mode, don’t jump to the conclusion that it is a bigger deal than it may be.
We all have to pull away our energies from our relationships from time to time. It is no different with soulmates. We may have a child who is ill, a family member in crisis, a financial issue, or work related problem. When things such as these crop up in our lives, we tend to focus all our energy towards them because we feel we need to give 100% at the time. So when we put all our energy elsewhere, our soulmate feels us pull away and we feel soulmate separation anxiety.
Is this something to get alarmed over? No. This is simply how life works. But all too often soulmates go into panic mode because they feel the distance created when their soulmate pulled away. Situations such as this are temporary, so don’t worry yourself thinking this is a permanent situation. And if you put yourself in your soulmates position, you would probably pull away from them and direct your energy at a family, career, or medical emergency too.
We are all human, and sometimes it is hard to balance our lives, especially when a stressful situation comes up that we were unprepared for. At times like these our soulmates need our understanding, not our drama. We don’t need to make their situation worse than it is. We don’t need to take it personally and let our insecurities cause misunderstandings and miscommunication. We also have to allow our soulmates to handle their situations the way they feel is best.
You may want your soulmate to help you in times of crisis. You may want your soulmate to listen to your problems because that is what you need at the time. Your soulmate may not want your help, and feel it is best they handle things by themselves. They may not be ready, willing or able to talk about what is going on and how they feel about it. That should be ok with you, because they are not you, and this is not about you. Your way isn’t the right or the best way, it is just your way.
Don’t get upset at them for not handling things the way you think they should. Give them what they need, instead of what you think they should need. If you feel your soulmate pull away, then space may be exactly what they need, so give it to them. That is how you show support for someone else. When all is said and done, your soulmate relationship should go right back to normal, so don’t stress too much about it now.