Feeling your soulmate pull away is one of the worst feelings in the world. Because of your connection you will feel when they’re pulling away. But before you go into panic mode, don’t jump to the conclusion that it’s a bigger deal than it may be.
SOULMATES PULL AWAY TO DEAL WITH LIFE ISSUES
We all have to pull away our energies from relationships from time to time. It’s no different with soulmates. We may have a child who is ill, a family member in crisis, financial issues or work problems. When things such as these crop up in our lives, we focus all our energy there. Because we feel we need to give 100% at the time. So when we put all our energy elsewhere, a soulmate feels us pull away and we feel soulmate separation anxiety.
Is this something to get alarmed over? No. This is simply how life works. But all too often soulmates go into panic mode because they feel the distance created when their soulmate pulls away. Situations such as this are temporary. So don’t worry yourself thinking this is a permanent situation. And if you put yourself in their position, you’d probably pull away as well. So you could direct your energy at a family, career, or medical emergency too.
TRYING TO KEEP A BALANCE
We’re all human. And sometimes it’s hard to balance our lives, especially when a stressful situation comes up that we’re unprepared for. At times like these our soulmates need our understanding. And not our drama. We don’t need to make their situation worse than it is. Taking it personally allows our insecurities to cause misunderstandings and miscommunication. We also have to allow our soulmates to handle their situations the way they feel is best.
Perhaps you want your soulmate to help you in times of crisis. You may want them to listen to your problems because that’s what you need at the time. They, on the other hand, may not want your help and feel it’s best to handle things by themselves. They may not be ready, willing or able to talk about what’s going on and how they feel about it. That should be ok with you. Because they’re not you. And quite honestly, this isn’t about you. Your way isn’t the right or the best way. It’s just your way.
Don’t get upset at them for not handling things the way you think they should. Give them what they need, instead of what you think they should need. If you feel your soulmate pull away, then space may be exactly what they need. So give it to them. That’s how you show support for someone else. When all is said and done, your soulmate relationship should go right back to normal. So don’t stress too much about it now.