We don’t believe soulmates ever stop loving each other. The bond that manifests between soulmates comes from a soul connection. This soul connection last many lifetimes between a soulmate couple.
When soulmates are connected to the relationship, it provides an incredible, exhilarating feeling. Soulmates spend a lot of time together talking, texting and making love until the wee hours of the morning. You think each other’s thoughts and complete each other’s sentences. You have never felt before the love you feel between you.
SO WHAT HAPPENED?
Then one day, perhaps without warning, the unthinkable happens. Your soulmate needs to take a break. They must tend to something else in their life or they end the relationship out of the blue. After weeks, months and even years of sharing this wonderful connection, it’s gone.
Your soulmate doesn’t want to talk about it. If they do talk about why they’re ending your connection, it either sounds trivial or makes zero sense. Your soulmate may even ghost you.
The connection is so strong, it seemed unbreakable. You didn’t see it coming and it never crossed your mind it would happen.
SEPARATIONS AND ENDINGS ARE PAINFUL
It can be extremely painful, frustrating and depressing to go through soulmate separations and endings. Sometimes it’s necessary to have a time-out before continuing the relationship. Very often these breaks are temporary yet at other times the break is a permanent one.
When any relationship ends it can take years to work through the emotions. You may feel you can never love again and that you’ll alone for the rest of your life. But in truth, neither of these situations is the correct. It just feels like that right now.
Once you work through the rough emotions you’ll start to feel your old self emerging. Only then can you address what you’ll do with the love you have for your soulmate. There you’ll find it deep within your heart, LOVE. The love you feel toward your soulmate is still there.
But how could you ever stop loving your soulmate? Maybe it’s not the same intense love you felt while you were together. It’s a love that feels comfortable when you remember your time together. Even though you’re are no longer together you still feel a closeness, a bond and a connection to them. Often this is because it truly isn’t over, regardless of how long you’ve been apart.
True soulmate unions are based on unconditional love. When we love someone without condition, it means that we love them. Period. We don’t love them because of what they’ll do for us or for what they give us.
At times we accept they may not treat us in a loving manner. We love them in spite of their character flaws and behavior patterns, that in others, we find totally intolerable. We love them purely for love’s sake because of the soulmate connection. This love will continue through all our incarnations and lives to come.
So the short answer to the question is NO.
Soulmates don’t stop loving each other but the love changes form. The intensity of love will subside as time heals, if the soulmates must stay apart. That intensity will be replaced by a fond, loving memory of the shared life experiences. There will be moments treasured and life lessons learned.
The ending of a soulmate relationship can be devastating. There are reasons why soulmate relationships have to end. Usually both partners are not responsible for those reasons, only one of them is.
In time, you will find your strength again as you work through your emotions and find peace. Once you do, and you’re safely on the other side, you’ll see the sun again. Only then will you be able to clearly see.
You will know and appreciate why this soulmate relationship was part of your life. Through this soulmate love you will grow, evolve and shift your consciousness. You will have come through the fire and survived.
At some point you’ll finally be able to look back at your soulmate with gratitude for the changes they brought into your life. You will assimilate the transformation into the core of your being. You’re a stronger, better person. Although the road wasn’t easy, you will look back with LOVE.
Love between soulmates is eternal. Love between soulmates lasts forever. Although it may be in a different form, that love will be there until this lifetime ends and the next one begins and you find each other again. You will always remember a soulmate.
Originally posted on 2012-02-24 @ 8:33 pm