Are you ready for a soulmate? Most people think they are. As a matter of fact, many people tire of waiting for a soulmate to appear. They believe they’ve been ready for a very long time. Now they experience frustration because a soulmate doesn’t present themselves. But are you truly as ready as you think for a soulmate to manifest?
THE UNIVERSE DECIDES WHEN YOU’RE READY FOR A SOULMATE
No matter how ready you think you are try to avoid feeling impatient and entitled. We usually don’t respond in a positive way to people who are impatient do we? No. So why do we think the universe will respond positively when we’re behaving the same way? We shouldn’t. We’re not in control of when, where and how a soulmate comes into being. We may believe we’re ready but the Universe may not.
It is up to the Universe and it will happen in their time, not ours.
If we try and take too much control we can’t reasonably expect positive results. If we believe in the concept of soulmates through the connection the universe creates, then we must ultimately leave control up to them. Sure, there are things we can do to help. We should be more open and make ourselves available. This is better than staying home, eating bonbons and being a hermit. But we can’t do it all! And although we may be ready, we also may have to learn patience.
WHY ARE THERE SO MANY SOULMATE CHALLENGES
If so many people are ready for a soulmate why do they experience problems when their soulmate does show up? For one thing, many folks are unprepared for the chaos a soulmate relationship brings with it. They don’t realize there are life lessons and personal growth experiences. And in many cases they resist the changes they need to make. They repeat the same mistakes over and over again. But instead of looking inside themselves they put the blame solely on their soulmate.
Many people think being “ready” for a soulmate means to just be willing to love and accept them unconditionally. To truly be ready for a soulmate one must not just focus on romance and martyrdom. Soulmates are supposed to strengthen each other and help them become better versions of themselves. The problem is too many soulmates bring out the worst in each other. And making them lesser versions of themselves. How can a relationship get better when the individuals involved just get worse? It can’t.
So when you encounter a soulmate, you may find yourself not as prepared as you thought you were for the roller coaster ride ahead of you. Don’t let the trials and chaos drag you down. But instead use the opportunity to find within yourself strength and power you never knew you had.