Is my soulmate relationship destined to last? The answer to this question is not really. You were destined to meet your soulmate. The universe made sure of that. And they will make sure it happens according to divine timing. However, what becomes of that first encounter is up to the two soulmates.
YOU HAVE TO MAKE IT DESTINED TO LAST
As humans, we have free will to we make our own choices and must take responsibility for everything we say and do. The universe will not clean up all our messes for us. We’re on earth to learn, grow, and choose our own path. The universe gifts you with a soulmate. But what you do with that gift is up to both of you.
You can’t rely solely on destiny to make your soulmate relationship a lasting one. Your soulmate union is to grow spiritually and learn to operate on a soul level. You didn’t meet your soulmate so you can operate from a place of fear. Should you lower your standards of treatment and behavior and become a lesser version of yourself? That’s not the universe’s intention and it shouldn’t be yours either.
WHAT DO YOU NEED TO WORK ON?
To ensure the best possible outcome for your soulmate relationship, take a long, hard look at yourself. What lower behaviors and feelings have been rising within you since joining with you soulmate? It could be insecurity, a lack of faith, abandonment issues, control issues or co-dependency issues. You name it. That right there is what you need to work on and what you need to rise above.
It is those things, if not eliminated, that are destined to steer your soulmate relationship off course. Those very behaviors and feelings flared up because they need to be addressed within you. It’s time to move past them and put them to rest. They are not for you to act on and act out.
SOME THINGS ARE OUTSIDE OUR CONTROL
There are things in life that happen to us, outside our realm of control. One of these things is when we meet a soulmate. That’s up to the universe. You can prepare for a soulmate or open yourself to meeting your soulmate. But it’s not up to you when they enter your life, regardless of how hard you try. There are things in our life we can make happen and others we have zero control over. The outcomes are based on the choices we make.
What becomes of your soulmate relationship depends on the choices you both make. Don’t leave the fate of your soulmate relationship to destiny. Take the responsibility for the future of your relationship and learn your lessons and keep your standards high.
Please also see our article Not All Soulmate Relationships Are Meant to Last