Not all soulmate relationships are meant to last.
Souls come together for a reason or a season. But they’re rarely together for a lifetime. It would be great if all these connections end in happily ever after. Unfortunately, this can’t be the case.
BUT AREN’T WE MEANT TO BE?
You may be with your soulmate. But that doesn’t mean you have a perfect relationship. Now they all do include a great, cosmic connection to another soul, where things just fall together and flow together. But only for a time.
Many people believe soulmate relationships guarantee a happy ending. But if we look at the true nature of soulmate relationships we will understand why they can’t. A few of these unions can go the distance, but they are few and far between. But many soul connections are not meant to be.
One of the characteristics of a soulmate is that they become a mirror. This mirror reflects back the issues within us we must address and work on. Sometimes this happens easily and painlessly. At other times, a soulmate reflects back to us something that will shatter our self-image and self-confidence. We must work to address those issues to become whole.
YOU’RE COMPLETE AS YOU ARE
Since the Universe creates us, we’re already whole. We don’t need someone to complete us, regardless of what Tom Cruise said in that movie. We have soul connections to compliment us. This allows us to become the best we can be.
You may encounter more than one soulmate during your lifetime. Perhaps you’ve been in one soulmate relationship and learned the lessons from it. Then you moved on to other soulmate relationships or to a twin flame relationship. So wouldn’t it make sense not all soulmate relationships are destined to last?
REASONS SOULMATES ARE MEANT TO LAST
- You learn the life lessons and personal growth detailed in your soulmate contract. And it’s time for both souls to move on.
- One of you may find the connection too intense, even being afraid of it. Please remember that just because the connection feels amazing to you, they may see it differently. They may even say it feels amazing but deep down inside it terrifies them to have such a deep intimate bond to another.
- One of the you may already have a soulmate and would like to begin a relationship with them. Yes that can happen. Especially since we live in a time where more soulmates, and twin flames, are incarnating on the planet at the same time.
Don’t cry because it’s over.. Smile because it happened. ~ Dr. Suess
So it’s very important, if you’ve suffered a break with a soulmate, to practice self-care. Now is the time to be gentle with yourself and find things in your life that make you happy.
Spend time with your friends, take a short vacation and do the things that nourish your soul. When you’re in the middle of it you may not be able to see the changes happen. But you will at the right time. Only then will you be able to look back and understand why this person was in your life and how it changed you.
Originally posted on 2014-06-05 @ 5:01 pm