Soulmate Glasses – Are they Blinding You to the Truth?
Are you wearing soulmate glasses? When we are in relationships with someone we really care about, or are really into, such as our soulmate, we have a tendency to see the best side of them. We may not see them clearly. We may not see our soulmate as they really are. We see them through the illusion created by the soulmate connection. The soulmate connection is a very powerful thing. We see them through our soulmate glasses.
When we are in a soulmate relationship we tend to see the best in our partners. We see them through the lens of the illusion our soulmate glasses create. We feel the soulmate connection, and for some that is all it takes. But the soulmate connection does not give someone the justification to mistreat you in the relationship. The mistreatment can come in many forms and usually does not manifest immediately. More than likely we will only see bad behavior from a romantic partner when we have been in a relationship with them for a while.
In the beginning everything is great, it always is, as you both basque in the glow of your soulmate connection. You spend a lot of time together, he calls and texts you daily, you talk about your connection and how great it is and discuss plans for your future together. Then after some weeks, or months, things start to shift and change into what is more realistic in terms of the relationship. The amount of communication more than likely declines and although you still see each other regularly it may not have the frenzy it did in the beginning of the relationship. This is not an indication that something is wrong with the relationship. It does not signify that you soulmate connection is waning either. It is just a more realistic place for your relationship to exist and this is normal.
However, your soulmate could shift into the space where he becomes a bad romantic partner. If he does this, how do you view him? Do you see him realistically or do you see him through your soulmate glasses? You may be more tolerant of bad behavior from a soulmate partner, but are you seeing him realistically in relation to how you value yourself? If he suddenly starts taking you for granted, do you make excuses saying he is just overwhelmed with work? If he stops spending quality time with you, instead treating you like a booty call, do you slough it off because the sex is great and you have a great soulmate connection? Has he become verbally or emotionally abusive, and you deal with it because you love him and can excuse his behavior because he is your soulmate?
When we look at our soulmates through soulmate glasses, we can forgive the little flaws we see here and there. We can forgive the misunderstandings, miscommunications, missed communications, showing up late and forgetting to pick up the dry cleaning. Because of the soulmate connection we tolerate more, and put up with more crap, than we would from someone we had a regular non-soulmate relationship with. That is the nature of the soulmate relationship.
There are some behaviors, however, where we have the right to take off the soulmate glasses, and see the situation as realistically:
- If you soulmate cheats on you
- If he goes back to his ex
- If he can’t decide what he wants with you and takes you on an emotional roller coaster ride
- If he makes you feel devalued, degraded or just plain flat out disgusted
- If he refuses to work on himself, work through his issues, and address his bad behavior
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