Is your soulmate ready for a relationship?
Many times soulmates aren’t ready to deal with a soulmate relationship. Some of them aren’t even looking for a serious romantic partner. Others are completely unaware of the existence of soulmate connections.
So when a soulmate enters their lives, they’re totally unprepared.
At first they may accept the connection with open arms. However, at some point, it’s common that they take a closer look at the connection. It seems unbelievable to them that they become attached so quickly. This never occurred with past romantic partners.
Then warning bells start going off in their heads and fear begins to rear its ugly head. When they’re unable or unwilling to accept and acknowledge your connection, it can leave you in an emotional mess.
Many people contact us to inquire what they can do to facilitate their soulmate journey. And we tell them is what we’re telling you now, that unfortunately, you can’t do anything. It’s up to them to accept your spiritual union and to act accordingly. It’s frustrating to know that you’re powerless to help them.
YOU CAN’T MAKE YOUR SOULMATE READY
You can’t make your soulmate ready and you can’t help them become ready. The only thing you can do is allow them the time or space they need to become ready.
Long-winded discussions, in almost all cases, will do absolutely nothing. Usually this only causes more hurt feelings and leads to negative exchanges between the couple. So stop trying to convince them and stop pleading your case. If they want space, then give it to them. You may feel that’s the hardest thing to do, but in reality it’s not.
The hardest thing on your relationship is trying to force it when someone is resisting you. It causes more damage, ruins self-esteem and creates bad habits. All these things are very hard to break further down the road.
So giving your soulmate time, although difficult on your end, is the smartest thing to do. Show them the confidence you claim to have in your connection with your actions instead of your words. If you want them to believe you should be together, then show them your faith, instead of chasing after them because of your fears.
WHY THEY AREN’T READY
There are endless reasons your soulmate may not be ready for the relationship. They may need to get out of another relationship before they’re free to be with you. Some may need to heal from a past relationship that caused them a lot of drama, trauma and chaos. They could be paralyzed by fear, spooked by the connection and/or the depth of their feelings.
Your soulmate may have to focus on family issues or a serious illness of someone close to them. Perhaps they’re going through a bitter divorce or child custody battle. They could be trying to control the relationship by saying they’re not ready for you. Soulmates tend to shake things up. And let’s face it, it can be scary and make you wonder what will happen between you two.
It really doesn’t matter why they’re not ready. Any reason they present is not going to change anything right now. So ultimately asking them more questions won’t make a difference.
You won’t change their mind, it will only make them dig their heels further into the ground. So instead of obsessing about reasons why they’re not ready, or wondering when they’ll be ready, focus on something else.
You already got the red flag they’re going to challenge you in this relationship. That is going to take your inner strength, not your weakness, to surmount those challenges. Stay strong, and stay focused on the right things so that you’ll be ready when they are.
Originally posted on 2017-05-25 @ 2:00 pm