Is he my soulmate? We are asked by many people seeking validation to the question. Here are some hypothetical scenarios to allow you to better assess your own relationships.
1. Is my ex my soulmate?
I am still in love with my ex. And we had this amazing connection. So could he be my soulmate? It’s possible your ex is. Have you become a better person during the break up period? Did you apply yourself to both personal and spiritual growth during the time he’s not in your life? Now the greater question is, has he? Has he gone through a transformation during this disconnect between the two of you? And is he putting forth effort to expand his life? If the answer is yes, there’s a greater change he’s your soulmate.
2. Strangers in the night.
I met this guy at a bar the other night. When we exchanged glances a few times it was so intense. If you don’t have any way of contacting each other, chances are he’s not your soulmate. In order for someone to have a soul connection, there needs to be depth. And not just glances across a crowded room. There is a chance this meeting will not be the only time you come in contact with this person. If you bump into him again he could be your soulmate. And the timing of your first meeting was off.
3. Texting relationship.
I get a weekly text message from this guy I had a one night stand with two-years ago. Are we meant to be? Again, receiving a text message once a week from a guy you slept with once, doesn’t constitute a relationship. And much less a soulmate one. You could have a soulmate connection. But if he’s not ready to have a relationship with you now, he’s of no use to you right now. Don’t focus on him. But instead focus on how you need to handle him and the situation.
4. I met someone on a dating app but not in person.
I met this guy in a dating app. And we’ve been texting and talking on the phone for months, Is he my soulmate? Now this guy could actually be your soulmate! But you won’t really know until you meet him in person. You can have a great connection through text or the phone. But you really need to see if the connection is there when you meet in person. It may fizzle, it may be great. But you won’t really know until you meet face to face.
5. I met this amazing guy and we’re together.
I am in a relationship with this amazing guy. He helped me work through all my abandonment issues. And I was able to teach him about unconditional love. Yes, he is your soulmate!
6. I have a strong connection to this guy, but he’s married.
Could my soulmate already be married? Of course he can be you’re soulmate if he’s already married. Many times soulmates marry other people before they find each other. On the other hand, he could also be someone just looking for an affair. If this is the case, he’s probably not your soulmate.
7. This guy treats me like crap.
If he’s my soulmate why does he treat me like crap? Unfortunately, sometimes soulmates mistreat each other. Or just one of you does. There are also many men who mistreat women. But just because they’re jerks who are not in soulmate relationships. Then again he might just like to act like an asshole.
8. He has a girlfriend.
He has a girlfriend but we have an amazing connection. Just like the case with married soulmates, the same applies to girlfriends. Sometimes soulmates meet at the right time so they don’t make a mistake and marry the wrong person. Sometimes they’re already in relationships when they meet their soulmate. This presents them with the challenge of leaving that relationship so they can be with their soulmate. It’s a catalyst for change. If he does it, and you’re together, he’s your soulmate.
9. He doesn’t feel the same about me as I do him.
Is he my soulmate if he doesn’t feel the same way about me? In many cases, no. If he doesn’t feel the same way about you now, and isn’t willing to consider it for the future, he isn’t a soulmate. But what if he doesn’t feel the same way about you right now, but things change in the future? Then yes this could be a soul connection. Sometimes people fight these spiritual unions. They choose to ignore them and push them away. And they refuse to acknowledge even to themselves because they’re fearful about being in a closely bonded relationship.
10. Are we soulmates if our relationship has a lot of problems?
Can we truly be in spiritual partnership if our relationship has one problem or issue after the other? Aren’t we supposed to meet and then be happy? Some soulmate relationships are really put to the test. But you’re supposed to rise above them. Some dysfunctional relationships are filled with tests because they’re the wrong relationships. And the universe is telling you to get out of them NOW.
11. He refuses to change.
How can he be my soulmate if he refuses to change? Soulmates, just like everyone else, resist change. People don’t like change. Now some soulmates can and will change, but you need to look at what changes you can make to get the ball rolling. Perhaps you’re hanging in there because you think he’s your soulmate. But he makes no effort to change. If you really believe he’s your soulmate, you should have the strength to change yourself so can.
12. He has addictions.
Is he my soulmate if he has an addiction problem? Yes, you can have a soulmate who’s addicted to drugs, alcohol or anything else. But just like with every other addict, their disease comes before your relationship. They need to get help, and remain clean, for your soulmate relationship to move forward and stabilize.
Sometimes it’s hard to discern whether or not someone is a soulmate. You may believe you read the signs and signals right. But the other person falls short and creates more disappointment and unhappiness in your life. If you’re miserable and unhappy, and don’t see the light at the end of the tunnel, chances are, he’s probably not your soulmate.