There are many people who believe in soulmates. And they’re on a quest to find them. Many dating apps and sites dedicate their time to help people find their soulmates. For many people, no ordinary relationship will do. And they will not stop searching until they find their one true love. But on the flip side there are just as many people who don’t believe soulmates exist. They believe soulmates are something written about in romance novels or the characters in romantic movies.
SHOULD YOU BELIEVE IN SOULMATES?
It really is up to the individual. Many people who never consider finding a true soulmate become true believers once they experience a soulmate connection. And those who think soulmates are nothing more than New Age airy-fairy mumbo jumbo are stunned when they have at first encounter with soulmate energy. The intense connection and emotional tidal wave can knock them off their feet. The feeling of familiarity with someone they barely know makes no sense. The chemistry is so overwhelming it makes them feel weak at the knees and out of control. They finish each other sentences and are amazed at how it all just clicks.
Because the experience of meeting a soulmate was so unexpected, denial can set in. Instead of believing a soulmate is now in their lives, they try to deny the connection at all costs. They still refuse to believe in soulmates and completely deny the connection. Even to themselves. And usually only one of the soulmates in the relationship believes soulmates exist.
There’s nothing wrong believing you’ll meet your soulmate one day. Leaving yourself open to their arrival is the best approach. Just keep in mind the universe is not a fast-food restaurant where you can order your soulmate and have them delivered in minutes. It’s on the universe’s timetable, not yours. When the universe feels the time is right they will orchestrate the meeting.
Many people get frustrated waiting for a soulmate. They lose patience and decide every person they meet is a soulmate. Or they stop believing in soulmates all together. Don’t let that happen to you. Don’t confuse the emotional roller coaster of a dysfunctional relationship with a soulmate relationship. Both have intense emotions, out of control thoughts and fears, drama and issues.
Yes, soulmate relationships can be dysfunctional. But not every dysfunctional relationship is with a soulmate. A bad experience in a toxic relationship can make someone forget about soulmates altogether. A negative viewpoint of relationships, or previous bad experiences, can prevent someone from believing in soulmates. And this can block soulmate energy from coming in.
Once you meet a soulmate, many of your friends and family will believe the soulmate concept is a bunch of nonsense. They don’t understand any of the emotions or experiences you try to describe to them. They begin to question your sanity. And after a while, you may question it yourself. Many people, who have become true believers, have at one point questioned their beliefs. And all because it seems no one understands what they’re going through. The only way the will is to experience it themselves.
The bottom line? You don’t have to believe in soulmates to encounter one. But if and when you do, it will make a believer out of you.