Do you believe in soulmates?
Many people who believe in soulmates and are on a quest to find theirs.
There are many dating apps and websites that claim they can help people find their soulmates.
For many people, no ordinary relationship will do. They will not stop searching until they find their one true love.
On the flip side there are just as many people who don’t believe soulmates exist. They believe soulmates are something written about in romance novels or a fantasy in romantic movie plots.
SHOULD YOU BELIEVE IN SOULMATES?
It really is up to the individual. In truth it doesn’t really matter if you believe or not. Many people, who never consider finding a soulmate, become true believers once they experience a soulmate connection. Then there are those who think soulmates are nothing more than New Age airy-fairy mumbo jumbo.
So of course, they’re stunned when they have their first encounter with soulmate energy. The intense connection, and emotional tidal wave, can knock them off their feet. The feeling of familiarity with someone they barely know makes no sense. The chemistry is so overwhelming it makes them feel weak at the knees and out of control. They are truly amazed at how it all just clicks.
Because the experience of meeting a soulmate is so unexpected, denial can set in. Instead of believing in the bond they share, they try to deny the connection at all costs. They still refuse to believe in soulmates and completely deny the connection, even to themselves.
There’s nothing wrong with believing you’ll meet your soulmate one day. Leaving yourself open to their arrival is the best approach. Just keep in mind the universe is not a fast-food restaurant where you can order your soulmate and have them delivered in minutes. It’s on the universe’s timetable, not yours.
When the universe feels the time is right, they will orchestrate the meeting.
Many people get frustrated waiting for a soulmate. They lose patience and decide every person they meet is a soulmate. Perhaps they stop believing in soulmates all together.
Don’t let that happen to you. Don’t confuse the emotional roller coaster of a dysfunctional relationship with a soulmate relationship. Both have intense emotions, out of control thoughts and fears, drama and issues. But one has a chance to get better, the other does not.
Yes, soulmate relationships can be dysfunctional but not every dysfunctional relationship is with a soulmate. A bad experience in a toxic relationship can make someone forget about soulmates altogether. A negative viewpoint of relationships, or previous bad experiences, can prevent someone from believing in soulmates.
Once you meet a soulmate, many of your friends and family will feel things may be moving too fast for you two. They don’t understand any of the emotions or experiences you try to describe to them. They begin to question your sanity. After a while, you may question it yourself. Many people, who have become true believers, have at one point questioned their beliefs.
The bottom line? You don’t have to believe in soulmates to encounter one but if and when you do, it will make a believer out of you.
Originally posted on 2015-05-17 @ 9:00 am