When Your Soulmate is not Single

Your soulmate is not single. What kind of sick joke is this?

If your soulmate is not single it can really be a rough road for you. Many people are seeking a soulmate to have the relationship they’ve always dreamed of. But many meet one only to find out their soulmate is not single. Why did the universe bring a soulmate to you for if they’re unavailable?


Some people encounter a soulmate who is married or in a long-term relationship. Does this mean the soulmate connection is all in their head? Why does the universe allow soulmates to meet if they can’t be together? What’s the purpose of having a soulmate that is not single?

The universe creates soulmate couples for a reason. The universe also decides when they meet and there’s always a reasoning behind their timing.

You may meet your soulmate as they start a relationship with someone else. The reason the universe creates your meeting is so your soulmate gains some clarity. They may not end their new relationship right away.

When Your Soulmate is not Single
When Your Soulmate is not Single

Their new relationship may serve a purpose for yours somewhere down the line. There may be experiences your soulmate needs to have prior to entering into a relationship with you. It also could be your soulmate needs to meet you so that their new relationship doesn’t get too serious.


Your soulmate may not be ready to face the challenges of a soulmate relationship. They may need to work through the challenges of their current relationship beforehand. Soulmate relationships can be harsh and some past experiences can be helpful down the line. It’s very depressing when your soulmate isn’t single. And this leads some people to believe the universe is somehow punishing them.

Always remember, the universe can see the big picture in ways we can’t. Everything happens for a reason. The universe may have no other way to help guide your soulmate out of their current relationship.

Your soulmate may be stuck in the wrong relationship. They may have given up on wanting more and settled for less. This is where you come in. Who else but a you could give them the strength or courage to get out of a relationship that does not work for them?


Unfortunately it can take a while for your soulmate to free themselves. They may be so deeply enmeshed in a dysfunctional relationship that they can’t see their way out of it. They may love you, and want to be with you, but have a hard time letting go.

This is part of their lesson and their growth. Your meeting is part of their lesson plan. It will be hard to be patient, and have faith, that they will leave. But you must consider though not all soulmates will leave a bad relationship to be with their soulmate. Sometimes they just don’t have the courage. Or, they’re unable to make the right choices.

Should you pull away from a soulmate that’s not single? Should you enter into a friendship or an affair? What’s the right way to handle it when your soulmate is not single?

Well, each soulmate couple is different. Their circumstances, lessons, and life path are all different. There is no cookie cutter answer that fits for all soulmates.

As soulmate psychics we provide insight and answers unique to each couple based on their reading. It may seem like the end of the world if your soulmate is not single. In truth, it isn’t always as bad as it may seem.

Originally posted on 2015-09-17 @ 3:02 pm

10 thoughts on “When Your Soulmate is not Single”

  1. I am in this boat right now. My soulmate has a boyfriend and the relationship does not make her happy. I do not know what to do. Wait for her to get out of it? Do I move on? I don’t know what to do it is driving me crazy.

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