Are You Interfering with Your Soulmates Lessons?

If we focus on our soulmates lessons more than our own when we’re in soulmate relationships. It’s easier to focus on someone else’s behaviors and short comings. Because then we don’t have to focus on our own. That’s not how soulmate relationships work. When we focus on our soulmate’s lessons we take attention off ourselves. And only focus on them. We wonder when they will call, when they will change, when will they leave their wife and when will they get their act together. All to get this soulmate relationship on the road.

DON’T FOCUS ON YOUR SOULMATES LESSONS, FOCUS ON YOURS

Take the focus off of them, and focus on yourself instead. Nothing will happen or change when you focus on your soulmate. And that’s because you fail to do all the things you’re supposed to be doing. We get calls all the time asking us questions like:

Are You Interfering with Your Soulmates Lessons?

Are You Interfering with Your Soulmates Lessons?

  • When will my soulmate call?
  • When will he be ready to commit?
  • Why isn’t my soulmate talking to me?
  • Why is my soulmate ignoring my repeated texts and phone calls?
  • When will my soulmate change?
  • What are my soulmates lessons in this relationship?

Calling right now may not be part of the divine plan. Communicating when YOU want them to may not be in the cards. It may be better to look at the reasons why you want, or feel your need, to talk. Is it because you’re feeling insecure and need that validation from your soulmate? Are you unhappy because you need that communication hit from them to feel better about yourself? Just because you want them to contact you doesn’t mean they will.

CHANGE HAPPENS IN THE QUIET TIME

The Universe may not want communication between the two of you right now. They may be trying to teach a valuable lesson before you can be together in a stronger, more defined relationship. Maybe they designed it this way so they start to make the changes they need. We know you want contact. But if that interferes with what’s occurring on a deeper level, you’re just wasting time. Which really means things could take longer in the long run.

Perhaps they need a period of disconnect and no communication to get their act together. So if there’s communication before changes are made, what’s the point? Would you rather keep communicating, just so you feel validated that they’re still there? You want them to make drastic changes, yet you are stuck on your fear and need a phone call? You have to decide which is more important to you. The phone call or the changes? Unfortunately, you will not be able to have it both ways.

If the universe needs them to release old behavior patterns why are you obsessing about contact? That may be what you want, but you shouldn’t. If you want change, don’t make it about you.The personal growth doesn’t include, nor is related to you. But it will make your relationship better in the long run. Your desperate pleas for communication may very well be interfering in the life lessons the Universe is trying to teach him. This is not about YOU. It is about HIM. But because you have not heard from him, you try to make it about you. And actually that is what you should be doing, but in a different way.

WHAT NEEDS TO CHANGE IN YOUR LIFE

When we have periods of disconnect from a soulmate it’s a good time to focus on ourselves. What are we missing? What should we be doing? Are you learning what you need to learn? If we have a tendency to be insecure, we can start working on building our own inner security system. Does your self esteem takes a hit when you don’t have consistent communication? If so address your own self esteem issues and work to improve it.

This being said, it is probably the very thing the Universe wants YOU to be working on anyway. This is probably the very reason you have the soulmate relationship in your life. He is playing his role as your soulmate and doing what he is supposed to be doing. But are you holding up your end of the bargain? Are you following up on your own soulmates lessons?

Stop worrying about when your soulmate will call you or spend time with you. There’s a real reason why communication between you is on hold. Instead of worrying about them, worry about what you’re doing. And not doing. Focus on what things in your need to be addressed so you can become a better, stronger person. Remember our soulmates mirror and reflect back to us the things within ourselves we need to work on. Focusing on your soulmates lessons will only keep you stuck.

 

 

15 Comments

  1. This made me look at our relationship (my soulmate and I ) in a totally new way! Thank you for writing this article. I am so glad I found it.

  2. I have been reading all evening the literature that really is speaking to me about soulmates.And i am intune with my intuition my higherself knowing without a doubt I have met my soul mate.And so many things you speak on are what i am going through.You see it happened just like you wrote.The immediete love at first sight.the intensity of our feelings.The 4 hrs at a time talking on the phone.The closeness like no other and the smell of his skin and the touch of his hand not to even mention the passion of the kisses that were shared.It was a dream come true.The man i have been waiting for all my life.Time moved on and he and i texted up until 2 in the morning knowing work came early.We could not get enough of each other.He text me and told me he was very serious about us and later on he texted and said he was very much in love.Of course i was too.And on top of the world Then all of a sudden he ran.Giving excuses that i new were not of any truth.I became sad wondering what i could of done to make him abrubly leave me.I have never in my life experience an in depth love as this.Ive been strong these last couple of month because he said he was going through things and he wanted me to wait.and i agreed then he cut me short on his texes.stopped calling all together but when i would text him he would say he still wanted me to wait.one thing i have had through out time with this man is patience.Now he says he has a love for me and i know this to be true even though he doesnt express his feelings to me any more.And as i read that about the craziness of the mind.The running and the fear i have known for awhile he is scared because he felt the same way as me.I dont and will not give up and thanks for the insight about so many things that are us.Theres no doubt in my mind that we are soul mates.and you are right.so many do think its a grand and most smoothe sailing experience as soul mates are lead to believe.But it werid i have thought for awhile theres lessons to be learned out of this painful situation
    The letting go is not something i am ready to deal with because i want despreatly to live my life with this man.No one can get through to me.No other man that is.so i am very inquisive about what you can tell me in depth about what is underneath the surface and what lyes in the souls of one another.and if our soul blueprints are one that we will have a time where we can enjoy each other after getting past these life learning. experiences.You see i do dwell on alot of where hes at why dont he text me back.Or why he just doesnt give in and let me back in
    He has closed his heart to me but not his love.And that empthtic soulmate connection is one that we also have.I feel his fears his negitive feelings hes scariness of being in love and then have everything fade away.It makes it hard for me when i know my love is at the awe stage and he is the one that stopped and took off.I hate the word fear and what it consist of.Dont get me wrong fear takes ahold in many aspects of ones lives.But that alone has been a call for the crazyness of the mind.You dont know but i felt obseesed literally beacause i eat drink and sleep this man Then i justified it by against all odds.what we know to be true just doesnt go away.so i decided it is love in the first degree.But i did take in alot of good reasoning and i see know that i must gain strenghth and have faith and give the process the time it needs to heal the brokeness or whatever the case may be.To not be selfish and think only about me.Because he is apart of not only me but our souls have found each other and i want him to get what is expected and in turn i want to grow and be apart of what is to come.You moved me in alot of positive ways.You put a whole new outlook on this situation that we are in together.I feel within myself that we will come together once things grow we mature and find our purpose.Thank you so much for yoe knowledge on the souls of the loved ones.You brought alot of clarity too my out look and the pain i suffer inside.

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  4. Can you ever get back together. He was my life and we were one of those couples who just were all over each other everywhere we went, he was crazy about me. I pissed him off 3 weeks ago as I got drunk and stuff happened. He told me to go at least to give him some space. I just thought that something isn’t right as ive been away and there is no words from him about when I should come back. We have been having communication and its been nice and friendly. However my gut feeling told me today to call our landlord, I wanted to see if my partner had given in notice then I would no that this split is for real, he has given in notice and will be moving out March 18th. I was everything to him and everyone said so, they even said they had never seen him this happy before, Even in photos his family have said to me that he has never smiled showing his teeth before as he does cuddling me in pictures. He was my world and my everything in everyway, I took 34 years to find him and I am now 41 and I never will want to meet anyone ever again as I have found my soulmate my life partner and that’s it forever.I want him back so bad.

  5. This was very informative. It has put a lot into prospective for me.
    Thank you.

  6. when the be ok we´ll be together forever

  7. im unsure where I went wrong but my soulmate and I haven’t been properly in contact and I feel alone as not in relationship with any one im scared of the outcome and past what do I do helpxxxx advice

  8. This article just reminded me of what I already knew, and what we talked about in our reading. Some days are really hard, and reminders like this keep the big picture in perspective.

  9. I let him go this morning after 20 years…2 x meetings. I need to move on…although it breaks my heart. He is not ready.

  10. Thanks i got it, I read it the right time too!!
    I was searching for a clue and i found it here!!!
    Messages are coming to the right time to us,
    cause the universe allow to us the right time to understand
    them.

  11. This was meant for me to read tonight. Thank you.

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