Soulmates are for life. It needs to be said.
Too many people ask us during soulmate readings if their soulmate’s feelings for them have changed and if they’re still soulmates.
CAN YOU CUT THE CONNECTION?
Contrary to popular belief, you can’t cut some invisible cord, or some other nonsense, so someone is no longer your soulmate. You may choose not to have anything to do with them, but they’re still your soulmate. And since you have free will you always have choices about what to do, and what not to do, with your soulmate.
Think of it like the bond between blood relatives. They are your family and you share a blood connection. This doesn’t mean families never become estranged. You can choose to never speak to your brother, sister or even a parent ever again and be just fine with it. You don’t have to walk around with your spirit broken and lament that you don’t have a relationship with them.
If you realize your life it better off without them, you can move on without them. You can also feel totally at peace about it. So just because you no longer have a relationship with them, they’re still your blood relative.
The same thing with applies to soulmates. Perhaps you learn the lessons required in your soulmate relationship, but you soulmate refuses to learn them. You can then decide you’ve had enough of their shenanigans, move on and leave them behind.
They are still your soulmate, but you can live a happy life and find love again. Many times the universe rewards us with another soulmate.
SOULMATES FOR LIFE EVEN WHEN APART
We all have a life path. The universe puts soulmates in our path when they feel the time is right. It might not seem like the right time for us, but they have their reasons.
We don’t have to give a soulmate an indefinite amount of time to get their act together. Although they’re meant to walk alongside us on our spiritual path, we can walk that path alone without them. When we do this, someone else comes along that path who is more on our level.
That does not mean you will always be vulnerable to them. Usually they no longer have the same affect on you that they once did. As you progress on your spiritual path, the wounds from your soulmate will get better. The experience of the soulmate relationship will heal.
On the other hand, just because you and your soulmate have a little fight, don’t worry their feelings will change for you. This is part of being in a relationship. It happens to every normal couple.
Even though you can move on from a soulmate, it doesn’t mean it’s easy by any means. The dynamics between soulmates have to become so toxic that one has to call it quits to save themselves from going down a dark path. It’s literally a last resort, when everything else has tried and failed.
A soulmate connection is too strong, and the decision to let go is never made lightly.
Soulmates are for life, even if they’re not always a part of your life.