Are soulmates made for each other? Most people who believe in the concept of soulmates think so. But what does this really mean?
Soulmates made for each other for what purpose?
It can’t be just for a romance, can it? If the universe creates soulmates they have to have a higher purpose, right? Exactly, there is a higher purpose for each and every soulmate couple.
YOU CONTRACT WITH EACH OTHER BEFORE BEING BORN
If you believe in soulmates and soulmate relationships, you know you’re are made for each other. Soulmates meet in the spiritual realm, prior to incarnating, or being born.
Before coming to Earth, souls have meetings with guides and members from their soul family. This is where they decide the life lessons they will learn during the upcoming lifetime. A soul family are the souls who travel with us from lifetime to lifetime. We have real earthbound relationships with these souls over and over again. And we all come down together to experience life, learn and evolve before our final reunion on the other side.
We may incarnate at the same, or different time periods, depending on the nature of the relationship. If it’s to be a romantic relationship we will usually incarnate during the same generation. Since we travel with these souls through time, when we physically meet there is a sense of familiarity. We experience a feeling of already knowing this person.
There is a subtle recognition when we encounter one of the souls we travel through lifetimes with. That recognition should also come with a flashing billboard announcing “Major Life Lesson Incoming”. And you know when you meet one of them, spiritual growth comes with that relationship. These life lessons may be very, very difficult.
A LIFE LESSON EXAMPLE
Let’s say, for example, you need a life lesson in patience. This is truly one of the most difficult things to acquire. Don’t lose heart when you are experiencing life lessons in patience. It means you’re almost at the end of your incarnation cycles and almost home free!
On the other hand, your soulmate needs a lesson in learning how to receive unconditional love. Both of you agree to provide these lesson to each other, in one way or another, when you create your life’s blueprint. You create soulmate contracts or agreements with soulmates to provide these opportunities for spiritual growth.
THE PERFECTION OF YOUR SOUL
Your souls need these life lessons in order to evolve to the next level. Both of you agree to have the life lessons with that soul. So you’re already with each other before coming down to Earth. It’s true that you’re made for each other because you agree to be in each other’s lives for a reason.
It’s your karmic duty to fulfill and complete your soulmate contracts to provide the lessons you each need in your individual soul evolution.
Soulmates made for each other due to a soulmate agreement…
But it’s not a guarantee that you’ll be together for the long haul. A soulmate can come into your life for a season, a reason or in some cases a lifetime. The chance of soulmates uniting for a lifetime increase as they each learn lessons. These same odds decrease if they choose to ignore those lessons
If a break-up occurs with your soulmate it creates the emotional soulmate crisis point we call soulmate separation anxiety. It’s during this period of separation, and the resulting sadness, depression and in some cases obsession, you learn the life lessons. You will have to work through the trauma of this great loss and it will take effort and resolve to travel through it.
This is the time to focus on yourself and practice self-love and self-care. It will take a while to heal. You can get over the pain of losing a soulmate and you will love again.