Stop Trying to Make the Wrong Person Your Soulmate

Are you trying to make the wrong person your soulmate?

The wrong person will not be your soulmate no matter how hard you try. Not everyone you have strong feelings for is a soulmate. Not everyone you have a crazy relationship with is a soulmate. Great chemistry does not mean they’re your soulmate. Not everyone you dream about is a soulmate.

Just because you’ve never felt like this before, does not make them your soulmate.


Too many people try to make the wrong person a soul connection. The intensity levels in soulmate relationships can feel very similar to toxic, dysfunctional ones. The emotions and drama run very high in both types of relationships.

No matter how hard you try, you can’t make the wrong person your soulmate. It’s not up to you to create one. That’s for the universe to do. This mix up can create disastrous results. You can waste too much time with the wrong person. In doing so, that could keep you from finding a true soulmate partner.

Try looking at the relationship from a neutral position. Or course this is hard to do when you’re actually in the relationship. But try keeping emotional distance.

Just because you have a hard time imaging being without someone, doesn’t make them a soulmate. Even people in toxic relationships have a hard time imagining themselves without their partner. If you think about someone all the time, it doesn’t mean you’re in a soulmate relationships. People in highly dysfunctional relationships think about each other all the time.

Stop Trying to Make the Wrong Person Your Soulmate
Stop Trying to Make the Wrong Person Your Soulmate


You may have some similarities to your romantic partner but this doesn’t mean you’re soulmates. It’s not in your best interest, for romantic success and happiness, to insist the wrong person your soulmate.

Many people contact us to tell us they know their current partner is their soulmate. But we read it differently because we’re able to look at it psychically and objectively. Many times we tell them the person they’re calling about isn’t a soulmate and that they’re the wrong person for them. Unfortunately they don’t want to hear it since they already think it’s a soulmate connection. Of course they can get very angry when we disagree.

Sometimes we hold on to the wrong people and need a reason to justify it. Telling yourself the wrong person is a soulmate can give you a reason for staying. If you believe all soulmate relationships are meant to be, you may erroneously believe your current situation is destined to be sunshine and roses one day.

Don’t kid yourself. It’s not going to happen. You need to stop trying to make the wrong person your soulmate.

Are you hanging in there with the wrong person hoping it will get better because you believe you have a soul connection? That is a waste of your precious time. There’s nothing wrong with searching for your soulmate, just don’t think every person you like is one.

We also invite you to read our article: Red Flags They’re Not Your Soulmate.

Originally posted on 2015-10-27 @ 3:48 am

7 thoughts on “Stop Trying to Make the Wrong Person Your Soulmate”

  1. So many people I have come across try to make every one they have an attraction to a soulmate. They think simply finding someone attractive makes it a “connection.”


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